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We'll call this guy.. Nate. So Nate and have dated a few times, it all adds up to around 6 - 8 months. I'm 15, he just turned 16. We dated this summer for a month or 2, and well, I took his virginity. He wasn't my first, but I had my first real like, moment with him, like it actually felt special. So, shit happened, this guy kissed me, roumours spread, he broke up with me. We got back together a couple times within the next month, but it never lasted more than a month because the trust wasn't there. So, in Janurary, he msged me and said 'i miss us' and we got into a long conversation, and he told me he still loved me still had feelings for me and everything. I was over joyed. So, from there.. we started dating in March. It lasted a week, and he broke up with me. Saying that it wasnt the same and he didnt like me like he did before.. but still wanted to be friends. So, we are. But then, like a week ago, he msgs me again, and says i miss you, i regret breaking up with you, so on and so fourth. Then he says but don't break up with your boyfriend.. things happen for a reason. So, I told him straight up, that I wasn't planning on breaking up with him, because I wasn't going to run to him again, to have him break up with me in a week, and that didnt seem to bother him. The next day, the guy i was dating broke up with me, nd Nate thought I broke up with him, and i said i didnt. that was when he told me that he was staying single for a month to figure his shit out. Then I posted a picture and tagged a bunch of people, including him. the picture says I _ _ _ _ you. with a) hate b) love c) miss d) like e) want f) lust . So he commented and deleted it, so i asked him what he posted he said "None of them.. I cant miss you, i saw you yeasterday, i dont know what lust means.. and none of the other ones." I pretended like it didnt bother me, but it really does, because he says he regrets breaking up with me last week, now suddenly he doesnt even like me? i dout it. So, today it says on his wall "</3 hard to look for the right person." I understand hes confused, so im giving him his space, but if he wants his space, shouldn't he stop saying he misses me one day and then implys he doesnt like me the next . Anyone know what he's fkin doing? Because I have no idea... Any ideas on what to say? Because I've poured my heart out to him before, and he responds with like 2 words. So, I want ideas on little hints and crap... ? Anyone ? D:
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Well to be honest with you, It sounded like he may have had some trust issues from the start of the relationship. Bluntly put, He stroked your ego had sex with you and then it didn't work out. This guy is playing mind games, One minute he misses you and then the next he just doesn't know what he wants? Sounds like he might just be missing the sex part of it. I'm not going to lecture you but the guy is only 16 years old. The thing with getting "back together" is more than likely it just work out. Why? because if a relationship didn't work out the first time then there is a high chance it won't work out the second time. A relationship can't work if there is trust issues, Trust is a huge part of a relationship. I honestly think you should move on, You have a life to live rather than waste your time with someones mind games.
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