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my ex
i was like my ex boyfriends first for everything.we had sex (it wasn't my first time but it was his ,yes i know i should have saved sex til marriage..etc.) i was his first REAL girlfriend ,he told me im the best girl he's ever been with,everything! He was so innocent too.We've only been broken up for less than 2 weeks and he just broke up with me randomly,because he felt as though he wasn't liking me as much because we were together so much and he started seeing me as a friend.but he still said im the most amazing girl ,and im cooler than any girls he's ever liked and i actually meant something to him.All his friends told me that he talked about me all the time and he really did like me.For the last two weeks,ive thought about him like crazy.the day after our breakup, three of my friends saw him and said he was sad. Ive been sad for the last 2 weeks,and i gave him a sincere letter and he told me "it was a deep nice letter but he wants to be friends.."
We've been talking in school a little bit because we have a class together and he texts me only when he needs something..yet i havent been doing favors for him and i usually just blow off his questions in the texts.It's hard to believe that one day you can kiss someone,call them baby,cuddle with them ,etc.then break up with the person and get over it so fast.I havent texted him first or talked to him first,but i can't stop thinking about him and i just have this feeling that he isn't even thinking about me at all.How long could it take for him to realize he's made a mistake?!
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That's the thing about the "dumper" of a relationship. The "dumpee" (the person who obviously is not the dumper) is completed blindsided by the break-up, because they think everything's fine and going along okay.. but the dumper has had the time to get over the relationship. The odds are, that he's been feeling that way for awhile and he just broke up with you now, so basically, he's had alot of time to get over it, while you on the other hand, have not. Believe me, I know. It's like a slap in the face, and then you see your ex and wonder how can be okay about it while you're confused and hurt.
Listen, you can't convince him that he's made a mistake. You have to go on with your life, and if he realizes it, then great. If not, then that's okay, because you'll be fine ! You don't want to be the stalker pyscho ex. You're doing a great job of not texting him or talking to him first, because he wants to talk to you, he will. Give him some space, and while you do, hang out with friends, flirt with other guys, go on with your life. It's always a possibility he will realize he loves you still, but don't let that control your life.
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