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alls fair in love and war, so make me a sandwich
Posted Thursday April 22 2010, 2:03 am
I dont understand why men find foreign women, like asian, latin, or easter european women better wives? Is it truly because they are submissive, and men like that? I always thought that for men, a strong, independent woman that can take care of herself is most attractive so why is it that so many men say that they want to marry women from foreign countries because they are better wives, and dont nag you, and cook and clean and take care of children, etc etc. Honestly I am from Eastern Europe, and Ive lived in the US for 9 years and I adopted some of the ideals of equality from here, but my boyfriend still says that he loves me because I am not like those american girls that are egotistical and feminist. But I hate that because it makes me f...
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A crush that inspires you to take a hard class...
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 10:51 pm
So I like this boy, and he told me that he's taking AP Physics next year and that's really the main reason that inspired me to take it. Am I insane for doing this? I mean, I AM smart and highly motivated...Is this a "good" thing that I've done? I mean isn't it possible that a crush can inspire you to work harder and improve yourself in life? That's how I feel when I think of him. After wasting my time on a guy that only brought misery to my life (in terms of a semi self-destructive relationship) I want something more. I have such big dreams for my future and I know it sounds silly but my crush really does inspire me. A part of me thinks that this makes me some obsessive creep and that I might be in over my head. But the more I thi...
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Boyfriend feels unappreciated :(
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 10:37 pm
I'm 18 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months.
We got in a really big fight today, smoothed everything over, but he said something that kind of stuck with me.
He told me that he doesn't feel appreciated by me and that everything good he does for me goes unnoticed. I do have to agree with him a little on that, sometimes I do take him for granted. Sometimes I'm just really stressed or distracted and I get mad about little things.
It hurts me that he thinks that, though. It makes me feel like I've been a bad girlfriend to him.
I guess I'm asking advice, primarily towards males, on what I can do to show him how much I really do love him.
Thanks!
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Compatability
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 1:30 pm
I am a 14/f and my boyfriend of one week is 17/m. My star sign is cancer and his is capricorn... Are we compatible?
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Why do I continue to let myself down!
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 12:51 pm
I am a 25 year old female. And it's this guy I've been seeing for the past month. Ok here goes... Our first time being togeather we went out to eat. And everytime following we only went to his place. We have been intimate everytime we see each other and we only see each other like at night mainly after ten at night.
I have gained really deep feelings for this guy in such a short peiord of time. I usually go over his house because he lives alone, and my aunt lives with me until she gets her own home. And when I do go over we usually watch a movie. But what I've come to notice is he don't cuddle with me during the movie he don't put his arm around me only time he wants to cuddle is mainly when we are about to have sex. And we...
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like a guy who's got issues
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 11:52 am
i've had a minor crush on a guy for a couple months, we didn't hang out outside of work, just talked a little at the office. I knew he was going through alot. he told me about how he didn't know what to do with girls. he felt that he just gave and gave and when he needed something they didn't care about how he felt or what he needed. (which is something i've experienced as well... its very discouraging and you begin to think that there are no good people n the world)
he also is in the military and hates his job with a passion... he feels that it is a waste of his talents. he says "i've owned two businesses and employed over 500 ppl, yet they don't trust me to do the simplest tasks because of my rank" ... i was ...
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maybe he likes me back but doesnt know it?
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 11:28 am
so theres this guy i reeally like but he still likes his ex. but where quite good friends for a while but then it kinda stopped cause he knew that i like him. now since i told him that i dont anymore ( i lied :/ ; he told me that he stopped talking to me cause he didnt know how to handle the situation ) we talk again & he always gives me loads of eye contact, when we walk next to eachother we touch arms, when we have classes together he sometimes turns around to look/smile at me, he often smiles at me and everytime he sees me there's a spark in his eye. ive even been asked if we're going out so i guess im not the only one who sees it. so is there a chance that he maybe likes me back but doesnt know it cause he's so focused on liking hi...
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Your Opinion?
Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 11:02 am
Where To Start?
Ok my boyfriend broke up with me at the end of last month. I was heartbroken, although I felt it coming. We had been dating for almost 4 months, but we had been trying to get together for around 3/4 months before hand (It was quite difficult for us to be together, his friend was madly in love with me) We dated for around 2 weeks at one point, then we fell out with eachother & didn't speak again until he contacted me almost 3 months later. Throughout that time I could not get over him - as much as I wanted to. I still thought about him every day. So we've liked eachother a long time & he told me he was falling in love with me. Literally one day he was saying I was perfect, he'd never been happier with a girl, 2...
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how to get over an ex in this situation
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 9:03 pm
So i met my boyfriend ( ex now) at a party about 5 months ago and we didnt start dating immediately but we never had a "friends stage". We dated for about 3 1/2 or 4 months and then he broke up with me for no reason.He basically said he just wants to be friends with me because he got to sick of me being his girlfriend.I used to hangout with him every single day and our friends became friends and it just got to be routine to hangout.So we still do sometimes (not AS often)and its so weird to not be kissing him or holding his hand ,since we never had a "friends stage".I feel like when we look at eachother , we both feel the connection of how we used to feel and he always brings up our relationship so comfortably (and we mak...
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No sex but.....
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 8:09 pm
16/f
So I am dating a new guy, we'll call him Seth. Due to my current relationship, I don't want to rush into things like my last relationship. I'm cool with everything but sex, I want my relationship to last and I don't want that so soon. So we've already been to third base you know, fingering oral and such. So I want to make things a little surprising and exciting, I want him to be surprised when I pull something out of my sleeve. What's something I can do to really make him go crazy or really like. Something he won't expect?
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my boyfriend's boner...
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 6:35 pm
i'm a girl and i'm 14, and i admit, i have a boyfriend. we've been going out for 9 months and he's usually NOT like this!
i'm keeping this brief, cuz i hate going into detail about it.
we were at a park alone recently, and he was sitting at the base of a slide and i was on his lap. i was kinda uncomfortable, but we were just talking and i didn't see any harm. but then he started....rubbing my thigh and getting closer to my butt...
i really didn't like it so i got up and pretended to look at something.
he asked me to sit next to him again. i didn't want to, really, but i thought maybe he just wanted to tell me something.
well he started touching me like that again. i was about to say something, but i was ...
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how to get him interested?
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 2:11 pm
16/f.
So I've seen this guy around college recently. We've never spoken but were in the same room for an hour once and made loads of eye contact, kept eyeing each other up and smiling at each other etc. There was a lot of chemistry.
Then I found out he had a gf, & eventually decided not to pursue it. However, they've recently broken up (mutual decision) and I think I might try to pursue him now. Thing is, I only ever see him around sometimes & we've never actually spoken directly to each other. I've added him on facebook, but we've never talked on there. I know we have a lot of common. He's in a band, and into art & the same music as me. We don't have any of the same friends, but know some of the sa...
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becoming friends again
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 1:55 pm
i really like this guy alot & we where sorta best friends for a while until i told him that i fancy him. after that he ignored me and we also had a few fights about him ignoring me when i was drunk at a few parties. soo we recently talked about it calmly and he said that he does want to be friends again & that he made a mistake ( i also told him i dont fancy him anymore which isnt true to be honest :/ )
so since then we said hello to eachother again in the hallway & we also say hi when we have classes together. today he even stroked my hair. but the thing is that i wanna become really good friends again which is a lil hard because he has LOADS of friends & most of them dont like me which makes it really hard to talk t...
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Emotional connection??
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 1:50 pm
Hi im a 22 yr old female and me and my girlfriend of 3 yrs have been having problems because she says we dont have an emotional connection. the problem is i dont even really know what that means. I dont know how to give her that. Its really putting a damper on our relationship. Any advice?? Thanks in advance.
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need help getting over an ex...
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 6:21 am
my bf randomly broke up with me because he needed space and time.He told me im the most amazing girl he's ever met and that im his first real girlfriend and ive put him through the relationship experience but now he sees me as a friend and wants to go out and experience his "high school life". We are on good terms and still hangout once in a while, but im still crazy for him.I can't stop thinking about him and i want to get over him or atleast show that im over him! tips!?
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Boyfriend & art?
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 12:24 am
My boyfriend loves art & is majoring in Fine Art. I want to surprise him with some new art supplies, as he says he loves them, but doesn't have the money for new supplies right now.
He mentioned loving even basic things, like pencil cases, sharpeners, and erasers. But he mentioned that he likes really fine pointed black pens for drawing, and I was wondering if anyone had any tips on which type of pens to buy? Or any other suggestions of art supplies to surprise him with? I'm going to Hobby Lobby (crafty store) tomorrow, so any ideas would help! Thank you. :)
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this question is about my boyfriend miguel
Posted Monday April 19 2010, 9:38 pm
I have a promblem with my boyfriend miguel.
he hanged up on me when I called him.
So what do I do about this promblem?
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Women...
Posted Monday April 19 2010, 8:12 pm
17/m
Ok, so I like this girl that I know. I told her I liked her a year ago, and she told me she had liked me, but not anymore. Well, now I like her again, and she sort of likes this other guy, but it's been awhile and nothing has really happend...anyway, I took her to prom and we had a good time, we danced a bit, ect...but I don't think she likes me in that way. Idk what to do. Should I just tell her how I feel? Idk, and if I do, how should I tell her..?
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showin to love
Posted Monday April 19 2010, 6:59 pm
my boyfriend wants me to show him how much i love him...well i really dont know how to do show him that i love him...i mean yes i love him but how can i show it next time i come up his house?
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nickname?
Posted Monday April 19 2010, 1:37 pm
17-f
haha hey guyss, this might be a stupid question but i cant think of anything. So i have a boyfriend and he nicknamed me ashley boo and he wanted me to nickname him. his name is mike and does anyone of any suggestions or anything? haha nothing corny or anything..i cant come up with anything
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