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becoming friends again
i really like this guy alot & we where sorta best friends for a while until i told him that i fancy him. after that he ignored me and we also had a few fights about him ignoring me when i was drunk at a few parties. soo we recently talked about it calmly and he said that he does want to be friends again & that he made a mistake ( i also told him i dont fancy him anymore which isnt true to be honest :/ )
so since then we said hello to eachother again in the hallway & we also say hi when we have classes together. today he even stroked my hair. but the thing is that i wanna become really good friends again which is a lil hard because he has LOADS of friends & most of them dont like me which makes it really hard to talk to him while he's talking to them. and im also really shy.so how can i become better friends again? i dont think the time is right to ask if he wants to hang after school cause we still barely talk. what should i do? smile at him more or something? cause i often pretend like i dont see him or that im not paying too much attention to him cause i get really nervouss when he's around haha but i dont want him to think that i NEED him or anything.. i might give him the impression cause i dont have a lot of friends.
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What I am about to say might not make you feel good but it is the truth. I know a lot of girls who crush on their best friend that's a guy. I know the guys they like and they tell me it gets awkward and kinda screws up the friendship. When I say this next part it's for your benefit. Either stop being his friend because it will suck to see him flirt with other girls which he will, or ignore you at times, which he will. Or find another boy you like better and remain friends. That's really the only options because anything else will lead to heartache. Hope you understand what I'm saying.
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You shouldn't care what his friends think or if they like you if your unable to talk to him while
he's talking to his friends then pull him aside privately and talk to him start conversation with him and see where it goes from there if you start to
get nervous then take deep breaths to calm yourself down believe in yourself and be confident otherwise your self esteem will go down you could try smiling
at him and talking to him more then maybe he'll get the hint that your wanting to be friends with him again(:
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