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how to get over an ex in this situation
So i met my boyfriend ( ex now) at a party about 5 months ago and we didnt start dating immediately but we never had a "friends stage". We dated for about 3 1/2 or 4 months and then he broke up with me for no reason.He basically said he just wants to be friends with me because he got to sick of me being his girlfriend.I used to hangout with him every single day and our friends became friends and it just got to be routine to hangout.So we still do sometimes (not AS often)and its so weird to not be kissing him or holding his hand ,since we never had a "friends stage".I feel like when we look at eachother , we both feel the connection of how we used to feel and he always brings up our relationship so comfortably (and we make references to it often)and he still looks out for me like he used to.I want to talk to him about it but i don't know if im just imagining these things,or if they are just in my head(and i dont want to look stupid or annoy him and look desperate).We've been broken up for a little over 3 weeks... what should i do?
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I'm not sure of how long you two knew each other before you two decided to date but I'm assuming it wasn't long from what you've said above, A big thing in relationships is getting to know your partner, Finding out their interest, who they are etc. I think this was the first mistake. If he wants to be friends, Don't sweat it. Take it as an opportunity to get to know one another better. I don't really think it was a matter of him "getting sick" of you being his girlfriend (I'm assuming) but maybe it was the fact that their wasn't any chemistry in the friendship department. One thing that you said that concerns me is the fact that he said he was sick of you being his girlfriend...If this is indeed the case then not only is that kind of a rude way to dump someone but if he was sick of you then why would you want to be his friend? I guess it all really depends on whether it was really the fact that he wanted to get to know you better? or if he was truly bored of you. I would talk to him, Ask him these questions. Sometimes in order to get the truth out of people you have to study them.
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