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showin to love
my boyfriend wants me to show him how much i love him...well i really dont know how to do show him that i love him...i mean yes i love him but how can i show it next time i come up his house?
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~Watching whatever he wants or what you both want, sitting on the couch, playing with his hair.
~Smiling sincerely
~Making him a simple meal...dont just order pizza, but prepair a meal and it doesnt have to be fancy.
~Letting him know you trust him completely, being a bit revealing of intimate facts...trust is love.
~Kissing (unless either of you consider it sexual, then that is completely optional)
~Writing poetry/music for him.
~dont be afraid to be embracive, i don't mean sexually, but playfully.
~Dress up nice but not too dressy.
Sexual action is NOT needed necessarily.
-A guy :]
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Please keep in mind that showing people how much you love them DOES NOT mean doing anything sexual.
It's NOT "we're having sex, therefore I love you ". That's RIDICULOUS. You may want to have sex with someone because you love them, but not the other way around. (Did you learn truth tables back in high school math class? Given love->sex,the converse is NOT true)
Anyone who says that how many blow jobs you give is a measurement of love is lacking a brain. And if that's your boyfriend's reasoning, he's either just using love as an excuse to push you to do shit or his logic just EXTREMELY skewed.
Anyway, I'd say go for simple displays of affection. Take a little time out of your day to do something for him. Think about the little things your boyfriend does for you (if any?) that make you happy. And try to return the favor in a similar way. My boyfriend likes when I bake/draw him stuff.
And I second what WittyUsernameHere said about massages.
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Wow. "The only way you can show love is sexual intercourse"
Elisabby, you are an idiot.
Now. On to the subject.
Guys are like puppies. Imagine a big floppy basset hound puppy. That's us.
What do puppies love? Attention. It doesn't matter what kind, puppies absolutely love having positive attention entirely focused on them.
For guys, the most direct expression of how much you care about us will generally be how much time you feel like spending focusing on making us happy. We're very logical, so often it turns into a sort of goodwill exchange. A perfect example would be something like a shoulder massage.
My wife and I are the same mind, what's the point of living with someone if there aren't any extra benefits to having someone around constantly? So we do things like exchange massages while we watch TV. One of us sits on the floor and gets a massage, we switch after a while. Sometimes we'll do this through the entirety of a movie, which is kind of a measure of love. "I'm willing to spend a ton of time spoiling you because you love me and are willing to do the same"
Pick a day you intend to spoil him. Get a movie he really likes and will want to watch, or plan to go somewhere he'll enjoy. Cook, go out to, or bring home dinner he'll love. Give him a massage and rub his scalp (scalp massages are awesome) and give him little random kisses as you feel like it.
It really doesn't take any more than that. Simple messages, and simple pleasures.
Seriously though, massage trade. Cannot stress that enough. A relaxing rub down at the end of the day can do wonders for anyone, and being in a relationship is something you should use to bring little perks like that into both your lives.
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I made a scrapnook for my boyfriend to show him how much I love him. I just bought a comp notebook and filled it with lyrics, pictures of us, put things in little secret pouches, made lists of why I love him, burned CDs and put them in pockets, just a bunch of stuff. And then at the end, I basically told him that he means more than anything in the world to me and that I wanted to share my world with him. Then I gave it to him underneath the stars in a hammock and kissed him very softly, no tongue, and went through it with him.
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There's no other way of showing a guy you love him besides sexual intercourse. You said all you needed to say and you love him. Just tell him "words can't describe how much i love you" and be faithful to him.
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Hold his hand, give him kisses'.
Tell him you love him.
or does he want sexual things? like give him ablow job.
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