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need help getting over an ex...
my bf randomly broke up with me because he needed space and time.He told me im the most amazing girl he's ever met and that im his first real girlfriend and ive put him through the relationship experience but now he sees me as a friend and wants to go out and experience his "high school life". We are on good terms and still hangout once in a while, but im still crazy for him.I can't stop thinking about him and i want to get over him or atleast show that im over him! tips!?
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Okay, now I'm new with this relationship game. But I do know this, Tell him how you feel about him. This will help you get over him faster and with little to no pain. i hope I helped. Message me on how I did at dragonmaster082002@yahoo.com
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He could be scared. You mentioned that he want's to experience his high school life, which might mean he's just not ready for a relationship like the one y'all had. It sounds like you truly love him and that he started to feel that way for you and just ditched. In my opinion, he's afraid of loving you; y'all are in high school, no one expects to "fall in love" in high school, this isn't hollywood. Talk to him! Trying to forget him just makes it harder everytime you see him...TALK IT OUT!! You never know, he could be waiting for you to talk to him...talking never hurt anybody....if you do it appropiratly, like no yelling or accusing, just talk!
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The only efficient way to get over someone is to find another person that you like better. I know that since you are still crazy about your ex that it might seem no one better will come along. From what I've experienced and seen for myself it always happens, a better one comes around soon. You just need to hang in there and keep your eyes open. It's a big big world.
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It's going to take some time to really get over a relationship, especially one that ends like this. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself. Go out with your friends and have fun. Find a hobby or something you can do to keep yourself entertained and your mind off of him. Cry when you need to, find someone you can vent to, and you may want to put away anything that reminds you of him. If you don't want to get rid of it permanently, put it in a box in your closet until you're ready to face those things again. And while I think it's great that you two are still friends, you may need to take a break from hanging out with him. At least for a little while.
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