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maybe he likes me back but doesnt know it?


Question Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 11:28 am

so theres this guy i reeally like but he still likes his ex. but where quite good friends for a while but then it kinda stopped cause he knew that i like him. now since i told him that i dont anymore ( i lied :/ ; he told me that he stopped talking to me cause he didnt know how to handle the situation ) we talk again & he always gives me loads of eye contact, when we walk next to eachother we touch arms, when we have classes together he sometimes turns around to look/smile at me, he often smiles at me and everytime he sees me there's a spark in his eye. ive even been asked if we're going out so i guess im not the only one who sees it. so is there a chance that he maybe likes me back but doesnt know it cause he's so focused on liking his ex?? (he's liked her for a long time now but she has a bf and isnt interested)
is there any way to make him realise that i am likeable too? cause we have soo much in common & he really seems to like me as a person so ..
& he also often plays around with my hair haha
so is there a chance that he might like me back but doesnt know it?
& he did all those things before i told him i like him as well. he also continued keeping eyecontact when we didnt talk that much anymore. i like him soooo much & i cant get over him :/


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karenR answered Thursday April 22 2010, 7:33 am:
Any guy who is this focused on his ex is not looking for a relationship with you. He has even backed off when he saw that you were having feelings for him.

I know it sounds harsh but you'll only get hurt if you are thinking he likes you but "doesn't know it".
Thats just not the case. Talking and eye contact does not in any way mean he wants to have a relationship with you. He may like you as a friend but that's all it is.

You may want to back off for a while and see what happens. His feelings could change over time of course, but I don't think you want to be rebound girl. Those relationships don't last.

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DrPlayer answered Thursday April 22 2010, 12:23 am:
I see this kind of thing happen all the time. What you need to do regardless of what happens between the two of you is realize that there are more people out there that you will like. The only way to get over a person is to find someone else you like, maybe more. I mean all that emotion has to go somewhere right? Anyway the secret is not to get a certain boy to like you. It's to find that power within yourself to know that you are likable person and sooner or later a great guy who likes you back will come along. Anyway hope you dig my advice, I'm rooting for you.

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sunshine1232 answered Wednesday April 21 2010, 10:14 pm:
Yes i think there's a chance that he could like you
back but doesn't know it that's a possblity him doing all those things to you is a advantage for you that probably means that he actually likes you also the both of you having things in common will make it easier for you to talk to one another and have conversations you'll have more to talk about be outgoing & continue to talk to him flirt a little it's worth a shot if you like him like you say you do who knows maybe you two will end
up being more then just friends in the future(:

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