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My long distance bf 'broke up' with me..but I love him
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 1:58 pm
I am a 18 years old girl from Hungary, the guy lives in the USA. I love him more than anything, actually he is my first love. We got to know each other through myspace and we have been talking for more than one year. Now his life is really hard because his mom is ill and he should spend more time with her. And on wednesday he just suddenly told me that he wants to start to work in the mornings too, so we wont be able to talk maybe only in the weekends. (We talk when it is 6 pm for me, thats his morning) It was so sudden and I told him I am sad about it. And he told me that from now he won't be online every day as he used to be and he is free now and he sets me free too. He told me that he is sorry that he choose work instead of me. He and I...
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my ex , crush or facebook hotti?
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 4:55 am
me and my ex had a ruff ending the last time we dated but since then i forgave him and we are quite good friends... My feelings for him never left and recently hes been flirting with me and dropping hints that he wants somthing more than a friendship.
At the same time i have a slight crush on this boy in my grade hes never dated b4 and this worries me.
Whilst i like both these guys i talk to a mate of mine on fb. He goes to my school although we never talk there... we talk on fb for hours on end i im developing a slight crush on him also.... im not sure what to do i cannot have them all.
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wanting to date someone from my own race... among other things
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 12:28 am
me: 20.f.asian, him: 21.m.white. in short: i'm falling for my bf, but lately i've been feeling things like: wanting to date someone w/ my race/him having a daughter is starting to bother me. half of me thinks i want to be w/ him for a long time, the other half says i want to be single/date around. advice?
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what to say back on my birthday.
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 10:58 pm
18f.
so my birthday is next week .. yay! :) there is this guy who i've always had a crush on but we're just good friends right now. well he can never remember my exact birthday for the hell of it. he remembers the month and around the day but never the exact date hah .. boys! well my cousin always reminds him like did you remember to text sam for her birthday? this year I don't want to just be like .. thanks when he texts me. i kind of want to say something like .. "thanks for remembering .. or did nate remind you (my cousin)" something so i could maybe talk to him for a little bit and be a little flirty at the same time. any suggestions? thanks!
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He is happy with her and It hurts, why?
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 9:52 pm
I have known this guy for a few years now. And I have never 'ever' felt this way about anyone and I swore I wouldnt ever let myself get like this. I swore that I would never cry over a man. We went out once for about sixmonths about a year ago. And are the begining of this year we were so close, I mean like brother and sister. And we were texting and he say "I really like this girl. And I think she likes me back. Im asking her out tomorrow." Well he was coming over to my house the nextday we 'were' going to hang out. Bu he blows me off for some other chick claiming his parents grounded him(his parents dont care what he does. But now hes with this awful girl who is so mean to me. And he hardly ever talks to me. But I still love him. What do I do?
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birthday help :(
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 3:27 pm
i have a crush in school, and at one point he liked. me. then i made the stupid mistake by not liking him. i really really really like him now, and his birthday is next week, and i dont know what to do. what do i get him?!?!? do i tell him i like him again? he knows i really like him, and he acted annoyed by me, but im not annoying :( help. what do i do for his birthday?!
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serious question for MATURE columnists ONLY
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 2:52 pm
i don't care how old you are, but please only answer this question if you feel mature enough to do so. It is not anything bad, but I'd just rather not have an answer that i can't put to use. I'm a 19 yr old woman. I am in love with my ex-boyfriend. I have known him since I was 16 and I still feel for him the same way I did when I first met him. We broke up (his idea, not mine). I thought things were going fine. Time has been able to heal a lot of my wounds, and I understand why the break up happened now. i am not going to write the whole story because I just need an answer. However, you get the idea. I HAVE CHANGED! I'm still the same girl he use to know... BUT, I am not the girl he broke up with. I no longer get upset over little things. I...
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sticky situation
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 2:33 pm
So my ex boyfriend and I are very close again,after a breakup about 6-8 weeks ago. When i say close,i mean very close friends. We talk all the time ,hangout all the time,and just get a long great just like we did when we were dating,obviously without the commitment,without the kissing,and all that. We both aren't talking to anyone new and I don't have anyone in mind and I'm not sure if he does though. ( I wouldn't dare ask..but i dont think he does.) We often do flirt sometimes but it hasn't led to anything major.He's basically gone from my boyfriend for about 3 months,to now like my best friend.I am still crazy in love with him and I don't know what to do! Summers coming and i was thinking about just ending my friendship with him and writi...
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thousand miles apart
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 8:05 am
you have this person whom you know by name only in high school. he migrated to London after high school.. and then you met years later during an event.. constant communication formed after he left... is it possible to fall in love for this guy even though your a thousand miles apart? i mean, by the way he writes his post.. his blogs.. his pictures.. is it possible? because there's something pulling me towards him.. i've done a lot of things to avoid thinking about him.. but my feelings for him got deeper as we talked online.. :|
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Dating for 3 1/2 years
Posted Thursday May 13 2010, 5:09 am
I am a 15 yr old female. I have been dating this guy for 3 and a half years. He is amazing. We have been best buds since I can remember. He is kind sweet sensitive. I am not in love with him. Because I am too young for love. But I have very strong feelings for him. But here is the problem.
Me and my boyfriend have only held hands. Wehave agreed we both want too have our first kiss. But we dont know when to do it. We see each other once a week.But I really wanna kiss him. He said he wants too kiss me very badly. I dont know how too kiss but how do you know when it is the right time too kiss. We only see each other at youthgroup. We get 15 minutes to ourselves too do what ever and we hang out in a van. Any ideas on how we can have our...
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hes in love with his ex?
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 11:59 pm
ok as the title says, im like positive my boyfriend is in love with his ex. i cant prove it and i dont want to mention it cause i know he'll get mad at me because im always hassling him about other girls. but the thing is she lives like far away, he moved. they went out for a while and i know he still has feelings for her but the long distance thing wasnt working out for them. we are dating now but sometimes i think he wishes he was still with her, or that he wants her more than he does me. we're still in high school but i havent had a relationship in a while and i just want this to work...what in the world do i do?
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Why did he stop talking to me?
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 9:04 pm
I have been hanging out with this guys since Late February. At first, I thought it was just going to be a one night stand or random hook up type thing. Well this turned out to last longer than just one night and he took me out a few times, paid for dinner and what not. However, we continued to have sex. He let me stay at his place for a few nights and didn't try to have sex with me or anything, introduced me to his friends and even heard from a few of them that he liked me. Now the last time I saw him was this past weekend and he said he would text me. I have not heard form him since then. Normally he would text me throughout the week just to ask how I am or something like that. But this week, nothing. I understand I was probably just the f...
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facebook offical
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 8:45 pm
Before I even begin to ask for advice on this subject I already feel childish...
I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, and he adamantly desires that we not be facebook official. We are in our late twenties, and he is in the military and just deployed for a year. He brought it up a day or so after we started dating because he didnt want "people to be in my business". I was taken aback by the topic, but tried to be understanding, he told me that it was hard when he got divorced after an unfaithful wife and then having to answer all the "oh! what happened?!"s to people online. I really am trying to get his perspective, but I really cant see his point of view.
I havent met any of his...
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idk about her..
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 8:45 pm
so i've been dating this guy for a couple months and he seems to have this "friendship" with this girl. she always writes on his facebook and she texts him ALOT. like whenwe're hanging out he'll get a text from her but he'll just ignore it. idk though cause she writes things to him like "sorry for falling asleep on you last night" so like they text at night and idk do you think i'm over reacting or would you be concerned if it was your bf too? like i have my guy friends that i text too but not like late at night..should i bring it up? i don't wanna sound crazy and stuff
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More then friends??
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 7:06 pm
So,my newest best friend, Lance is basically everything you could ever want in a friend. He's sweet, understanding, helpful, compassionate, and all of that crap. I have liked him for ohh i say about a year. But i never really bega to get serious about my feelings for him until now. He knows i like him, and he doesnt make i big deal about it, but i feel as if he looks at me just a bit different. Although he doesnt act like it. He definetly does flirt with me though, i know this for a fact, and we also have personal texts. But he has a girlfriend and they have been dating for about...5-6 months now. I dont like the girl not just cause she has lance...he really likes her though, and i dont want to really come between them. But as soon as she's...
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confused as hell after the first kiss, should i call?
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 6:38 pm
hi...
i couldn't find something similar to my situation so i figured i'll ask...
i have been "seeing" this guy for almost a month or so or maybe a little less. he's super sweet. i've known him for years but we only actually got to be friends over this short time frame (the last month of school). anwya i am not allowed to date (i am 17, 18 in a month) since my parents are uber strict. so i would sneak out and see him mostly late in the evening or early in the am... i would come up with excuses like i am at the library or at a friend's or whatever... so far so good. i know i know.. i hate lying and i never ever do it with exception to this time and a couple of years back when i snuck out with friends.....
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cant get pregnant.
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 6:03 pm
okay, i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.
for a year now we have been having sex...quite frequently too
he has cum in me like every single time, but not once have i gotten pregnant.
why cant i get pregnant. does him smoking a large amount of weed have anything to do with it?
whats wrong with me :/
(18 y.o btw)
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i need some space?
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 3:56 pm
my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 8 months. I have had trust issues the entire time but I feel like they may be my personal problem. Anyways, long story short, I was telling him how I was upset about something with him, we resolved it but it was still awkward. I asked him a little while later if there was anything that I do that bothers him and he said no..but he thinks we spend a little bit too much time together and wants some space. he says that he still loves me and spending time with me but he thinks we spend too much time together. The next day he asked me to hang out anyways because thats the day we usually spend time together. I got an email that night that said " I love you. I just wanted to tell you again&...
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Weird Girl
Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 12:01 am
I am an 18/m and I was "with" this girl for about 6 months until she misunderstood something that I had done in bed (our first time) and ended everything. We got in a huge arguement, and stopped talking for a few months. Lately, she has got a new man, but has constantly been asking me to hang out even though I was always the one to ask to hang out when we were in a relationship. I love this girl with all my heart and want to be with her. What are some subtle hints I can give her to help sway her my way?
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Good things to do with boyfriend. need help with eperianced people.
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 11:55 pm
Im a female and me and my boyfriend have made a deal. I get to pick what he does to me and he picks what i do to him. No matter how weird. Haha. I need some help. I dont know what to get him to do to me. Any suggestions?
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