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He is happy with her and It hurts, why?
I have known this guy for a few years now. And I have never 'ever' felt this way about anyone and I swore I wouldnt ever let myself get like this. I swore that I would never cry over a man. We went out once for about sixmonths about a year ago. And are the begining of this year we were so close, I mean like brother and sister. And we were texting and he say "I really like this girl. And I think she likes me back. Im asking her out tomorrow." Well he was coming over to my house the nextday we 'were' going to hang out. Bu he blows me off for some other chick claiming his parents grounded him(his parents dont care what he does. But now hes with this awful girl who is so mean to me. And he hardly ever talks to me. But I still love him. What do I do?
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First, forgive her. I know it's hard, but she's mean to you because she cares about him too, and she sees both how close you two have been and how much you're definitely not over him. She's defending her relationship, it's really not personal, but neither of you can really help it either.
Second, it's time to move on. You were with him, then a year passed and you didn't get back together. In that time, he's obviously gotten over you, and there's not a whole lot you can do to change that. If you fight for him, you can't even halfway guarantee that you'll win. If he preferred you, he'd be with you, at least in presence if not officially dating. Guys are pretty simple like that.
Stop talking to him. If he asks, be honest. You're still in love with him, and he's obviously not still in love with you, and you need to get over him.
Getting over him will take time. Honestly, I'd say it should last until you find yourself into someone else, and end up dating again.
Understand something. You probably want to save the friendship. The friendship is already doomed. I know that probably hurts like hell to hear, but it is. You dated, you made him get over you, unless you two actually straight up got back together, your time with each other is over. The only thing you can do now is hang on and hurt yourself.
I'd argue that continuing to be friends would be more stupid than confronting him and telling him, essentially, that you love him and that it's her or you.
If he blows you off, that's pretty much it. If he doesn't, well I'm sure you can figure it out from there.
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Well first i would message him and talk to him ask if he wants to hang out maybe go bowling, go for dinner or go watch a movie or something or just invite him over to talk tell him how you feel and how you really like be around him but you cant because his gf just doesnt seem to like you. If talking it out doesnt work then i suggest just moving on forget him because he obviously isnt being very good about it i mean if you were close before and that friendship is still there then he should be able to talk to you about this and come up with a salution but if he doesnt then forget him and find a better person no point in wasting your time over him.
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