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hes in love with his ex?
ok as the title says, im like positive my boyfriend is in love with his ex. i cant prove it and i dont want to mention it cause i know he'll get mad at me because im always hassling him about other girls. but the thing is she lives like far away, he moved. they went out for a while and i know he still has feelings for her but the long distance thing wasnt working out for them. we are dating now but sometimes i think he wishes he was still with her, or that he wants her more than he does me. we're still in high school but i havent had a relationship in a while and i just want this to work...what in the world do i do?
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if you are worried now that he loves her still you must be miserable, if you dont feel like you can talk to him about it then either you must deal with it and be worried of end the relationship. i would just talk to him and tell him to be truthful, if he says he still loves her maybe then this relastionship wont work. some times wanting some thing doesnt mean you need it. you desrve to be happy and come 1st if he cant allow you to feel that way find it some where else.
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You can't truly love someone, If you are still in love with someone else.
If you can't trust your boyfriend, Then the relationship will not work out, As the key to a relationship is about communication and trusting one another. I agree with the person below me, TALK to your boyfriend as the way of finding out the truth sometimes is by studying someone by talking to them. If he doesn't seem into you then dump him, As what I said above is the truth. If you have your eye one someone but your heart is somewhere else then that person hasn't fully committed themselves to you.
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Stop torturing yourself.
If you can't stop torturing yourself with obsessive, pointless beliefs about things he denies, then stop torturing him, and dump the poor dear.
If you can't trust the person you are with to tell you the truth about their feelings, you shouldn't be with them.
A person who is going to cheat, is going to cheat no matter what you do. They will cheat if you nag, and they will cheat if you don't nag. A person who isn't going to cheat, simply isn't.
Unless you develop telepathy, you are going to have to take his word for his feelings about you and your relationship. If you can't trust him, do both of you a good turn and end the relationship.
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