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wanting to date someone from my own race... among other things
me: 20.f.asian, him: 21.m.white. in short: i'm falling for my bf, but lately i've been feeling things like: wanting to date someone w/ my race/him having a daughter is starting to bother me. half of me thinks i want to be w/ him for a long time, the other half says i want to be single/date around. advice?
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if you think about it then you probley arent ready to settle down. i was 20 when i met the guy i am with now he is the love of my life and not once have i thought about dating around. so you will know when the right one comes around
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I agree with "ohmylucydarling"
If there reservations of any kind, he IS not the man for you. End it now. It's not fair to him or the little girl for that matter. You are young and it is healthy to be single. You have a chance to get to know yourself. Have fun, flirt, date. Trust me when the right guy comes along whether your race or not, girl you will know, because it will fit perfectly. You won't be able to imagine your life WITHOUT him
As hard as it is to leave the relationship, it'll be harder in a year....
Take a deep breath, say a prayer to the gods and jump in
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You've already made up your mind here, If your boyfriend having a daughter is starting to bother you then that pretty much says goodbye to the relationship. Your boyfriend's daughter will always be there as he is the father and that is his daughter.
If you want someone who is your race then stop playing mind games and tell your boyfriend how you feel.
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