So my ex boyfriend and I are very close again,after a breakup about 6-8 weeks ago. When i say close,i mean very close friends. We talk all the time ,hangout all the time,and just get a long great just like we did when we were dating,obviously without the commitment,without the kissing,and all that. We both aren't talking to anyone new and I don't have anyone in mind and I'm not sure if he does though. ( I wouldn't dare ask..but i dont think he does.) We often do flirt sometimes but it hasn't led to anything major.He's basically gone from my boyfriend for about 3 months,to now like my best friend.I am still crazy in love with him and I don't know what to do! Summers coming and i was thinking about just ending my friendship with him and writing him a letter telling him why..and maybe if im out of his life he will rethink things..help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Katlyn answered Friday May 14 2010, 2:33 am: I think telling him face to face how you feel is better then writing him a letter because if you write him a letter he will just think you didnt have the decency to tell him to his face and then he will never rethink things. You need to tell him to his face sit him down tell him how you feel and if he doesnt agree end the friendship because if you cant be his friend because you like him you never will be able to because you will always have feeligns for him and if you continue to be just his friend he will date other girls and that will make you uncomfortable. So ya if things dont work out the way you want move on find someone new who does want a relationship with you and who will love you like you love him. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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