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cant get pregnant.


Question Posted Wednesday May 12 2010, 6:03 pm

okay, i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.
for a year now we have been having sex...quite frequently too
he has cum in me like every single time, but not once have i gotten pregnant.

why cant i get pregnant. does him smoking a large amount of weed have anything to do with it?
whats wrong with me :/

(18 y.o btw)


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Additional info, added Wednesday May 12 2010, 6:13 pm:
i'm gonna start off by sayin dont judge me or my bfs lifestyle, or i'll rate a 1.
please just simply answer the question. thanks!!
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justletmebe answered Thursday May 20 2010, 3:20 pm:
it could have something to do with it. maybe it just not ment to be right now if you are both ready keep trying but if your not maybe its the big guy upstairs helping you save your future everything happens for a reason. good luck

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Juliapoolia22 answered Monday May 17 2010, 9:54 pm:
You need to see a doctor your ovaries may not be producing right or the sperm is just not finding the shell.

Best of luck!

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Peeps answered Thursday May 13 2010, 6:25 am:
Well, if you have unprotected sex for more than a year and have not gotten pregnant then it's possible you're infertile. Technically, you would be considered "infertile" because of this.

I know you don't want to hear this but in some studies weed is showing signs of actually damaging reproductive organs, especially in females. They're even saying it may alter the DNA structure within females. That would mean the DNA you have and will pass onto your child will be altered. It probably won't be altered to where your offspring will become superman. Keep that in mind. Alterations in DNA usually aren't very good.

New studies are being done on various things we once thought to be fairly safe to some extent. They are finding new things about tobacco use even that is downright frightening--and for YEARS we promoted such things! Just because somebody says, "Weed never killed anybody!" doesn't make it true. Please, keep that in mind. It is a serious thing. It has killed people. There are things we still don't know about it and things we're just finding out about it.

I have a lot of information about weed and pregnancy from a previous answer here:

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Your body should be healthy before getting pregnant. A healthy uterus can sustain a healthy baby and you can have a healthy pregnancy.

Weed = not healthy.

That's just it. Seriously. It might not be 100% of your problems but it probably causes a lot of problems.

Smoking means a decrease in the amount of oxygen your body can take in and use. A decrease in the amount of oxygen your body has means things like sperm production dwindles. Your boyfriend may have an incredibly low sperm count because of this. Your uterus may be unhealthy because of this. I'm not saying it's only smoking weed either. Smoking anything is unhealthy.

I have some more helpful information on getting pregnant (kind-of like step 1 to getting pregnant, I think):

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The threat of getting a 1 isn't very scary. A rating of a "1" is only used for harmful advice. If someone doesn't agree with you it doesn't mean the advice is harmful. Harmful would mean they are telling you to hurt yourself, you know? Saying, "Weed is incredibly unhealthy for you!" isn't harmful. It just makes -you- upset because maybe deep down inside you know it's wrong. Who knows.

If you give people a "1" who don't deserve it you're going to be reported to DangerNerd for abusing the site. Just giving you a heads up so you know to not act on that threat. Wouldn't want you to get into trouble for something silly like that.

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Matt answered Thursday May 13 2010, 1:40 am:
God is doing you (and the world) a favor. You do not want to get pregnant at 18, and you do not want to get pregnant when you're not even married to the guy.



But yea, the weed is probably doing it.

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JayMarmolejo answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 11:10 pm:
Hey I know EXACTLY what your going through... that happens to me my boyfriend and I have sex every single day and he cums inside me all the time but when he stopped doing it for a month, there's a chance I could be pregnant..... the reason why I said that was because your 18 years old and every womens body is different, when your boyfriend cums inside you all the time that there is so much sperm going inside your vagina it can't all go in the egg, that's why your not pregnant... there is nothing wrong with you, just stop letting him cum inside you and start using condoms..... when my boyfriend last came in me its been a month and now I might be pregnant, because we've been trying so much that the doctor told us that we should cool down on the sex and have at least 3 times a week so the egg can recooperate. I know its so much to read but at least you know why... hope I helped...

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