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16/f me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 5 months now and i really love him i think he might be the "one" and you guys probly think its silly or w.e but i love him. Anyway weve been talking about have sex but we also have troble on finding a place because were always serounded by people.aka(family) ANd when we have sex i wanna know if ill know when/if im going to orgasm. my boyfriend keeps saying how hes going to suck at sex and struggle. but he fingers me most of the time when we can be alone and ive bleed twice. does that also mean it wont hurt as much when we do. im just really confused. of corse where going to use a condom. and idk if i should get birth control because i herd it makes you fat and well frankly im already fat as it is. and i dont wanna get fatter. i want this to be the best protected experience of my life. how do i make that happen?! (link)
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I know where your coming from... when he fingered you bleed down there, correct? That means you won't bleed when he sticks it in you because " he popped your cherry" and it won't hurt as much because when he fingers you, he's loosen the vagina... and if you want to take birth control then you can but there are side affects like you said, cramping, bleeding, gaining a little weight.. But its at the beginning but it will go away... and sometimes the first time isn't always so good haha believe me, but you guys can always keep trying and it will get SO much better, just make sure you always use a condom.. And as for places, go to a park at night make it romantic with a nice blanket etc.. When its dark out and no one can see you... I hope I helped, good luck!
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i don't care how old you are, but please only answer this question if you feel mature enough to do so. It is not anything bad, but I'd just rather not have an answer that i can't put to use. I'm a 19 yr old woman. I am in love with my ex-boyfriend. I have known him since I was 16 and I still feel for him the same way I did when I first met him. We broke up (his idea, not mine). I thought things were going fine. Time has been able to heal a lot of my wounds, and I understand why the break up happened now. i am not going to write the whole story because I just need an answer. However, you get the idea. I HAVE CHANGED! I'm still the same girl he use to know... BUT, I am not the girl he broke up with. I no longer get upset over little things. I am in college and so is he. We ended up in one of the same classes by pure chance b/c we both took the class before. (he failed it and i dropped it)... so it's pretty crazy we ended up in the same one! But, I know he loves me. He loves me but the guilt of breaking up with me for a bad reason is overwhelming him. He's afraid to go back to my family (for them to be mad at him). I understand. But, they have forgiven him and they love him too. He needs to know it's okay to come back. But, I can't just go up to him and say that. It's kind of weird for me to just say that. But, I know for sure he loves me. We have mutual friends and a lot of his friends are my family members, so I KNOW. But, he is overcome by his guilt to the point where he can't talk to me. I think if I just went up to him and gave him a hug, things would be better. It's a good start, at least. But, how can i do this without making it awkward... how can i just give him a hug after class? what's an opening line i can use to talk to him?! than you and i really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. God bless you.
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I've been through this.... waiting for him to say something to me and stuff... but bottom line, you love him and he loves you, you've known each for so long, are willing to loose what u had with him just because neither of you can speak about it?... just go up to him and talk to him.. SO WHAT if it feels weird cause your going up to him.... just do it, and I promise you it will be worth it!
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okay, i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.
for a year now we have been having sex...quite frequently too
he has cum in me like every single time, but not once have i gotten pregnant.
why cant i get pregnant. does him smoking a large amount of weed have anything to do with it?
whats wrong with me :/
(18 y.o btw) (link)
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Hey I know EXACTLY what your going through... that happens to me my boyfriend and I have sex every single day and he cums inside me all the time but when he stopped doing it for a month, there's a chance I could be pregnant..... the reason why I said that was because your 18 years old and every womens body is different, when your boyfriend cums inside you all the time that there is so much sperm going inside your vagina it can't all go in the egg, that's why your not pregnant... there is nothing wrong with you, just stop letting him cum inside you and start using condoms..... when my boyfriend last came in me its been a month and now I might be pregnant, because we've been trying so much that the doctor told us that we should cool down on the sex and have at least 3 times a week so the egg can recooperate. I know its so much to read but at least you know why... hope I helped...
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