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I recently saw my daughter left her email open when she left for school one morning. Obviously I looked at her emails and saw a boy's name that I did not recognize. I was excited, thinking she had gotten herself her very first boyfriend, and opened the email up to read for myself.

The boy is not from this town though. The boy is actually on the other side of the country. They, apparently, have been talking for a number of weeks, if not months, about all sorts of things. I don't know how they first came in contact with each other but there are lots of emails and they have been chatting on IM based on the email content.

I am worried because of internet preditors becoming more common now. The boy signs his emails with:
"
Luv ya,
[HisName]
"

I can't help but wonder if he had her into believing they are romantically involved or something. I'm worried she might be wanting to actually go and meet this guy! I want to keep her safe from these strangers but I don't want her to resent me for it right now. What steps should I take on stopping this behavior? I need her to know it is NOT OK for her to chat with strangers! How do I do this? (link)
no you need to confront her sooner than later. if you do it later she might think that she loves him. i would email the guy from your email. start a conversation and if his story changes(like his age) you know whats up. do it fast.


Hi, fifteen, female. There's a boy in my English class who is quite cute and I think he's been flirting with me but I thought he had a girlfriend, but turns out he broke up with her. They were going out for a year and a half, we started the second semester of English and he's been talking to me a lot and then all of a sudden, he broke up with her, I don't know if it was because of me but I just know he's single now. I'm not close enough to him to ask him what happened between them nor am I close enough to him to flirt with him yet with words. He does dumb little kid things like steal my pencil or him and the other two guys I sit with will all stare at me because they know I get creeped when people watch me do things. Yes, I sit with all guys, so when we get a paper to do, the cute boy will say "All you, I'll lend you my pencil to use and I did my part!" then he'll smile at me. He'll crack small jokes like ask our teacher if we have homework, then when she doesn't hear him he'll be like "wow thanks slut" and it makes me laugh, every time I laugh, he looks at me. He flips the pages in my book, like we'll be on page 385 and he'll flip it to page 6 and I'll slap his hand and tell him to stop and giggle (I know, giggling is lame!) I don't know, maybe it's just me thinking he's flirting. Do you think he is? If you think so what can I do to flirt back so he talks to me more? Thanks! (link)
he likes you. you just gotta break the ice. what ever you do do not cling onto him tho... give him space. act confident only showing signs that you like him every once in a while. it will drive him nuts. good luck.


Hey there okay never thought Id find myself asking one of theese questions but yea here goes.

Soo this will probably sound extremely stupid in a way but im kinda worried. Basicly I get my period towards the end of the month start of the next The last time I got my period was Jan 26/27th/28th could of been either of theese dates it finished probably like feb 1st now March 15th and I havnt had a period since im usually really on time,as my period previous to the last was the 26th of december.
Anyway I havnt had sex and im a virgin..so obviously I couldnt be pregnant.However a thought occured to me..in between this time me and my boyfriend have fooled around alot..like everything except sex.
So im kind of like stressing now considering im this late that maybe is it possible that if anything from him came in contact with me when we were messing around without realising?
Seems incrediabley stupid I know but I was wondering is that ANYWAY possible?cos im kinda freakin out now.
I know the more I stress that,that can delay them longer but ive relaxed and completely forgot until now.
why am I so late? should I be at all worried?
Thanks for your time :) (link)
you are most likely not preg. you have probly been so stressed out that you havent got your period that it has not come. stress can cause a period to be late. just relax. it happens all the time to girls ask anyone.




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