I have been hanging out with this guys since Late February. At first, I thought it was just going to be a one night stand or random hook up type thing. Well this turned out to last longer than just one night and he took me out a few times, paid for dinner and what not. However, we continued to have sex. He let me stay at his place for a few nights and didn't try to have sex with me or anything, introduced me to his friends and even heard from a few of them that he liked me. Now the last time I saw him was this past weekend and he said he would text me. I have not heard form him since then. Normally he would text me throughout the week just to ask how I am or something like that. But this week, nothing. I understand I was probably just the flavor of the week or whatever. I guess this would explain why re just completely stopped talking and left me hanging. Am I right? A guys opinion would be nice, too. If it helps, we're both 20.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justletmebe answered Sunday May 16 2010, 9:34 pm: I would try to text him and see if he writes back. maybe something is going on his life and he is stressed and right now he hasnt had time to think about it. dont always go to the fact he may not want you any more maybe life has thrown him a curve ball, family problems, work, school or something like that. If he is in school it could be finals week and really busy. But text him and check in on him allow him to know you are thinking about him, if it happens to be the flavor of the week thing then thats fine to. you are young and sound like pretty confident so just move on. [ justletmebe's advice column | Ask justletmebe A Question ]
Melody answered Thursday May 13 2010, 6:50 pm: Matt has a point. I don't see why some girls think calling a guy is forbidden or something. I am not saying stalk the guy, or be clingy & text/call every day. But a simple text asking him what's up is well deserved, if not expected I would say.
Just send him a text asking if he would like to hang out again sometime. If he doesn't respond, forget him. He was probably a dick anyway. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Matt answered Thursday May 13 2010, 3:51 am: Why don't you try, you know, texting him? Or, God forbid, calling him?
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