so i've been dating this guy for a couple months and he seems to have this "friendship" with this girl. she always writes on his facebook and she texts him ALOT. like whenwe're hanging out he'll get a text from her but he'll just ignore it. idk though cause she writes things to him like "sorry for falling asleep on you last night" so like they text at night and idk do you think i'm over reacting or would you be concerned if it was your bf too? like i have my guy friends that i text too but not like late at night..should i bring it up? i don't wanna sound crazy and stuff
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lances-girl-18 answered Thursday May 20 2010, 8:57 pm: GIRL!!! r u blind hes got to be cheating, if you want a for real anwer talk to him! put your foot down & ask him if he is cheating on you look directly in his eyes when he gives you a anwer if he smarts off to you ask him for his phone tell him if he really cares & loves you then he will do it tell him that you need to see it for yourself & look at every text she & him wrote together make sure he dont erase nouthing stand write beside him & do it if he says no than you need to be the women & find someone better that man dont need to have a girl that truly like him tell him that bitch can have you & walk away thats all i would do but than thats from the girl that dont take shit & got balls (not really balls but you know what i mean) [ Lances-girl-18's advice column | Ask Lances-girl-18 A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Thursday May 13 2010, 11:43 am: I'm not saying he is, Lets jump straight to the cheating flags...
Is he hiding things from you? Talking about HER a lot? Maybe quick to change the subject on certain things? I think it's rather odd that he would only text this girl late at night..
It's one thing to have a friend that is a female, but it's another story when it gets too far. If it is getting out of hand, I would talk to him about it and let him know how it makes you feel and you don't like the fact that he is always texting her when he spends time with you. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
Katlyn answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 11:55 pm: Well i think if you feel kinda uncomfortable with him doing that and just cant get it off your mind you should bring it out and see what he has to say I think you have the right to know whats going on after all he is you bf just ask him without sounding too suspicious im sure he will tell you the truth :D [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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