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How can i make him feel happy again
Posted Tuesday May 18 2010, 3:17 pm
Im 18/female & i think my man is not happy with me anymore he might be still sometimes when we are not fighting. we are still together & he still loves me the same but how can i make him feel like i am worth it & im the women that makes him smile threw anything again & to make him happy again
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He Left
Posted Monday May 17 2010, 8:50 pm
Ok my friend katie likes my boyfriend when we were going out. and then we broke up and she didnt even wait 1 week to go out with him. should i tell her off or just suffer?
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dont know how to do this!
Posted Monday May 17 2010, 4:09 pm
I have an ex that im still crazy in love with.He obviously broke up with me..because he said he stopped liking me as much as he did in the beggining. We still talk and hangout ALL the time.Once in a while alone,but most of the time we are in a group. We get along so well still and always have fun times together.He even told me he hangs out with me more than some of his best friends and the same goes for me too. When we first broke up,he made a few attempts to hookup with me and made a small attempt a couple weeks ago.We sometimes fight though and then he gets mad at me and it usually results in him saying "im not your boyfriend anymore so stop acting like it!" so i feel as though he gets the vibe i still like him..yet whenever we ...
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difference between being in love w your boyf & being in love with your best
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 11:13 pm
what's the difference between falling in love with someone you're already with, and falling in love with your best friend?
i know when you're with someone, you learn about them, you become close to them. when you're with someone, you become best friends during the relationship, and you fall in love from there. it's much longer to fall in love in a relationship, i'm assuming, because you're still getting to know each other.
what happens though, when you already know each other? when you're already best friends, and then other feelings begin to develop? how fast can you fall in love then? does it take as long or is it possible it takes a short amount of time to love them like that?
16/f, btw, i'm ...
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How can i stop being jelous
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 10:52 pm
Im 18/female and im always geting mad when i see my man talking to other females he has never given me a reason for him to cheat and he keeps telling me he want every time i ask i dont know what to do i know he loves me but i just have a bad jelous problems and i dont know how to change it What do i do to stop being jelous!
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age difference
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 9:23 pm
I'm a senior in high school, would it be weird for me to date a guy whos only a freshman?
Btw, im a 17 year old female, he's 15. I will be turning 18 in June and he will be turning 16 in August.
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fake account gone wrong
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 8:38 pm
About two years ago, a friend and i made up a fake facebook acoount as a joke. We are girls. We were junoirs in high school and now I realize it was dumb. It was made solely to creep on ex boyfriends. This one guy messaged the fake account and gave her his number. We started texting. I wasn't interested in him at all. I didn't even think he was cute!
Slowly, we started to like each other. I broke it off because I knew we could never meet. But, I cried so much because I missed him. We were in love or atleast thought we were. He messaged me again and told me he wanted me in his life still. I don't want to keep this lie going.
I have self-esteem issues because my older sister is so beautiful. I'm not ugly or fat...
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i want my girl friend to want me more
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 7:57 pm
Im fifteen year old male and she is twelve.Well me and my girl friend have been dating for two days we started out at a school dance and we have already made out and and she has told me that she will not go any farther no matter what but i want to change that not soon but in the future maybe in a few months maybe in a few weeks but we really like each other and i want to atleast get a handjob
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im deep in love...
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 7:55 pm
there is a girl at school named bethan,beautiful,intelligent and funny.I really think we could go far into a deep relationship....the thing is im not sure if she likes me to well,i mean we flirt alot all day but doesnt every girl do that.If there is anyway you guys could tell me how to tell if a girl likes you or not that'd be GREAT
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Relationship-phobic
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 5:34 pm
I'm a 16-year-old girl, and I can't seem to stay in any relationship. Every time I like someone and end up going out with them, I just suddenly don't like them anymore, and break up with them. What's my problem? It's not just that I like the chase, because I don't. I honestly don't do much chasing (I'm a big flirt, with everyone, whether I like them or not, but that's it). It's not likely that I like attractive people but realize I don't like their personality. Personality is one of the major reasons I would have a crush on someone. Is it just that I'm not ready for a relationship but not willing to admit that? (It's not a great thing for a 16-year-old girl to admit today). I feel so confused, because I legitamately like guys, but can't sta...
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should i go or should i not?
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 1:53 pm
17 f. Hey guys so. Me and my best friend we go to a different high school and every since we were in the 6th grade we vowed to go together to prom. So I had this BF who I really cared about and he happens to go to her school. He said he was going to take me. We had everything set when we got into this huge fight and he said a lot of hurt things to me. Like Ex. "I was always embarrased to be seen by you" "you're a who*re " and a lot of other things. So basically he also told me that he wasn't going to take me to prom he was going to take another girl. And he said "I bet you're going to look ridiculous that day" so now I don't know if I should go to their prom. My friend already got me someone to take me and ever...
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Not feeling it
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 11:05 am
My bf and I have been going out 7 months and things have been great overall. However, on our last date, I just wasn't turned on. I hardly even wanted to cuddle. I have only been on the pill for a month, so maybe this could be a side effect? and I definitely overate at dinner, but I don't know whether that could have had any effect either. Was this just a one-time thing or could it be a symptom of a deeper problem?
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More Time
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 12:04 am
So I have been dating this amazing guy for two months, we were best friends before then, me, him, and our other friend. Well now that we're dating it's really not weird for us three to hang out and I like that. But, last Friday I got grounded until summer vacation. Well that's still three weeks away, I don't see him much outside of school since he is grounded until summer too for shoplifting. I know I know bad kid. Anyways. His parents are married to different people. His dad lives by our high school and his mom lives by my house. During the week he usually stays at his dad's because it's closer. Occasionally he stays at his mom's but not a lot. But I am just afraid since we don't have a lot of time together as it is that we'll have even le...
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Should i move on???
Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 6:55 pm
I am a 20 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. We have been togeather for 5 years and living togeather for 3 years. He has always said how much easier it would be if we lived in seperate houses, because we are constantly arguing over who's turn it is to clean what, and he drinks quite a bit. Now recently he is saying he feels like he holds me back and i could make something of myself if i never met him. I explain it wasn't him that changed me but at the same time i think he might have. We have to live togeather because right now finacially we can't afford not too, but i have all of these thoughts swirling in my head. I feel as if i am not getting anything but mixed signals. I love this man with all my heart and i know he loves me but i'm ...
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Double Standards Relationship
Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:10 pm
I'm in a relationship with double standards. I have a standard set on me to not talk to guys who use to like me who are now just good buddies to have, yet I let her talk to all her buddies (she has more than me) who use to like her in that way and those are her close friends. All four+ guys I let her continue to talk to because I think it's wrong to keep friends apart for selfish reasons. I tried to reason with her, but it all blew up in my face. It's either her way or the highway. This isn't the only standard I have, it's other things also. I can't even bring it up without her leaving me. I tell her that these standards set on me actually hurt me, I'm not happy that I can't talk to my only friends. Her only friends are people that use to o...
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I made a mistake
Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 7:50 am
so i was dating this boy that i really liked, and i broke up with him. it was a huge mistake like right after i did it i realized that i didnt mean it. He was just acting funny and so many boys have hurt me in the past i was just afraid of the same thing happening again. i felt like he was putting me off. ive tried to talk to him but he is like really mad at me... the problem is he is stubborn, like he wont even listen. we hadnt been going out that long at all but i still liked him. i really want to be with him. so i tried to talk to him on 2 days ago. i didnt talk to him at all on friday, i just wanted him to cool down. i dont know if he'll talk to me again if i dont say anything to him first. what should i do. everyone says that if he doe...
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This guy is extremely confusing, I don't know what to do?
Posted Saturday May 15 2010, 2:35 am
I met this guy at school a while and we've texted a lot and we've tried several times to hang out, but they all kinda fell through. We don't really see each other that much at school - big school, no classes. About two weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't really want to anymore. So I figured, okay, whatever, I''m pretty sure he found someone else, but I could be wrong.
Welllll, he texted me last friday and said "so this may seem kinda weird but I miss you."
I was just like... what?? I'm so confused! He said we should hang out this week or weekend (im not sure which he meant). So I said sure and that he should text me sometime this week when he wants to hang out. I said it very ...
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I like her....how do i tell if she like me?
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 8:41 pm
There is this girl at school and we have been friends for about 5 or 6 months,not really a long time.But this girls personality is just great and she a gorgeouse,and we flirt alot.How should i win her over?
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Confused...
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 5:55 pm
I've been dating a guy since 2005 who has never been employed. I, too am unemployed but I'm unable to work an am on disability. I have 3 boys and this person is very kind and giving to them and me as well. We have out ups and owns but he is a good guy. He lives with his parents and two siblings and he runs errands for them, takes them to dr's appt etc and where this is quite commendable he is 37 and we cannot be a family when his family is so dependent on him. He has promised me countless times that he will find work and this is before the recession. He went to a 3 day security training program several months ago an every time I ask if he has received his background check info he says no and when I tell him this is taking quite some time an...
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ex issues
Posted Friday May 14 2010, 5:27 pm
Me and my ex had a great relationship,not too long...about 4 months. About6-7 weeks ago he broke up with me and we had obviously spent a lot less time together.We decided to become friends and we hangout almost as much as we did when we were dating.We still have fun and are so happy together and we get a long great.We just obviously don't do sexual things and kissing and all that stuff anymore.. I'm pretty much the only girl that's in his life and i don't think he's talking to any girls and i'm not talking to any guys...mainly because i still have feelings for my ex ..thats why i hangout with him so much. It hurts me to know he only sees me as a friend,but then again ,the occasional flirting happens and just by the way he stares at me makes...
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