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dont know how to do this!
I have an ex that im still crazy in love with.He obviously broke up with me..because he said he stopped liking me as much as he did in the beggining. We still talk and hangout ALL the time.Once in a while alone,but most of the time we are in a group. We get along so well still and always have fun times together.He even told me he hangs out with me more than some of his best friends and the same goes for me too. When we first broke up,he made a few attempts to hookup with me and made a small attempt a couple weeks ago.We sometimes fight though and then he gets mad at me and it usually results in him saying "im not your boyfriend anymore so stop acting like it!" so i feel as though he gets the vibe i still like him..yet whenever we go to parties,im usually flirting with lots of other guys,in front of his face. We never ever talk about eachothers hookups,or if we are talking to any other people,or anything about love interests etc. so thats good but I cant continue hanging out with him if we aren't dating.He's become routine in my group of friends and it's almost hard to avoid him all together.When we dated,we mixed our groups of friends into one big group and now we are all close so i dont know what to do! I was going to write him a letter about how i feel and tell him i can't talk to him anymore and maybe then he'll either realize what he had when im gone,or we will just separate and hopefully ill get over him.help!
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sounds like you both don't know what to do now that you have stopped having a romantic relationship. It is possible for the two of you to be friends but it will take time and you need to basically get past the romantic part. Take some time for yourself and remove yourself from the group for a bit. Stop talking to him all the time about everything and doing everything together. You have other friends you can spend time with and talk to. Then see how things are.
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thats a hard one maybe you should try to find another guy to get your mind off him.
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I think its hard or sometimes impossible to be friends with someone you use to date which is why i never do it i think if you feel uncomfortable being friends with him now after youve dated him or just dont feel its right then you should just tell him you cant do it and if he wants to get back together awesome and if not then move on theres more guys out there and as for the friends part just hang out with them still i mean im sure hes not gonna be with them all the time and if he is then try to get your friends to do things away from him.
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