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difference between being in love w your boyf & being in love with your best
what's the difference between falling in love with someone you're already with, and falling in love with your best friend?
i know when you're with someone, you learn about them, you become close to them. when you're with someone, you become best friends during the relationship, and you fall in love from there. it's much longer to fall in love in a relationship, i'm assuming, because you're still getting to know each other.
what happens though, when you already know each other? when you're already best friends, and then other feelings begin to develop? how fast can you fall in love then? does it take as long or is it possible it takes a short amount of time to love them like that?
16/f, btw, i'm in the whole i-fell-for-my-best-friend situation & im just wondering the difference.
so, explain your opinion? thaankk you lovies. <3
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Honestly and in my own experience, I fell in love with my husband pretty much immediatly. You don't have to know everything about someone to fall in love with them, although sometimes the things that they do make you either fall more in love with them or out of love. When you first meet someone, you know if you (a) could love them or (b) have no future with them in that department at all.
If you already know someone, my husband and I were friends beforehand, it is easier to fall for them because you know pretty much how they react to your opinions and what you have in common etc. I do think that it would be a shorter amount of time to fall in love, simply because you are already comfortable with them and with someone new you kinda are feeling out the boundaries and everything. I also do not think that this is always the case, I think when you find that one person that you are meant to be with you know. Whether you have known one another for years or days, you feel comfortable with them immediatly and you just sorta know that you have finally found that one person. Love is a very complicated thing and even more complicated to attempt to explain, but I hope I voiced my own opinion and stance well.
Hope I Helped and hope I was clear lol, I tend to ramble and not make sense sometimes :)
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when you fall for someone new, yeah you are right, you want to know more about that person and you feel like he is your dream person or something. but when you fall for your best friend then you already know how he is like, so you have a stronger view of if it's going to work out or not, plus that way you guys are more compatible (thats just my opinion). if your already best friends and you fall in love great, if that best friend feels the same way, even better.
so it's basically if you both share the same feelings. ti doesn't take that long to fall in love with them. how ever if you feel that they are some things you want to figure out about them to see if this relationship is really going to work out, then you might hold on longer....
hope that makes sense
and GOOD LUCK!
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