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i want to be single, but i want to end up with him


Posted Wednesday May 26 2010, 12:16 am

female, 19yo
i don't know what to do anymore..we've been together for 3 years. lately i've been feeling like i want to be single, but the relationship we have is the greatest. i don't want to throw it away. i've been thinking about other guys and stuff. i don't know. i still love him. we've been close to ending it a few times, but cry then we're fine again. the truth comes out when you're drunk right? i hate it when he's drinking with his friends. they just play beer pong and have fun. and now they're playing for money..anyway..this is when we're about to break up everytime. he'll come in the room because i want him to. he'd be hammered and start arguing and he'd say the worst things that would ever come out of his mouth. i don't thi...

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I NEED us to work out... i need him :(


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 11:06 pm

Here's the story. I'm fourteen (girl) and my boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating for seven months. We started off so perfect. It wasn't until he got really sick that things started to change, about two months ago. He started being moody and cranky all the time, even after he healed. I felt like he didn't like me like he used to. We fought all the time and it was horrible, I annoyed him and he just pissed me off. We almost broke up one time but he said he would try again. He did. Things got so much better. But this morning (after he had had a horrible night) we got in a little stupid fight and i said something that my friend had told me to say a long time ago. I said something like "if you don't change im gonna break up with you&quo...

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My boyfriend wants to finger me in public


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 10:36 pm

Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him?

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Bf of 3 years


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 9:21 pm

Me (female) and Tucker (male) have been dating three years. We have not done anything besides hug and hold hands. We have kept our relationship a secret and noone knows about. tomorrow is my birthday and he says he wants to kiss real bad. So I dont know what too do. Is our relationship going anywhere? I mean I really love him but we have a sorta you know friend relationship but we are in love. Should I break up with him or stay with him. Thanks for the help.

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wifey


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 8:10 pm

ok this is stupid but whatever. my boyfriend is completely loyal and i trust him completely. but he like calls this girl wifey and theyre acquaintances not best friends or even close or anything. should i feel weird? or am i over-exaggerating? its not like he likes her but is that flirty of him hes all like "you can be my wifey" and im like wut.. k thanks !

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love square???


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 7:00 pm

13/f
i like this guy...but we go to different schools and i texted him a lot during summer..but now our schedules are jammed and we dont text anymore..one of my friends goes to his school..and he asked her out..but she said no because she noes that i like him and she likes someone that goes to my school...the guy she likes asked me out and i said no...so..its kinda confusing sorry..but everone likes someone else and i have no ideawhat to do..any ideas????

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what do i say??


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 6:56 pm

13/f
what are you supposed to say when a guy says he like you???

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how do u tell a guy u like him??


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 6:54 pm

13/f
how do you tell a guy that you like him??

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talking dirty to guy?


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 6:03 pm

how to talk dirty to a guy



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Still scared of losing him..


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 5:50 pm

Hi :3 Long im sorry but please take the time to read >.<

Well,to start off I'm very shy and very insecure about myself. I have a boy friend who I adore and love more than anyone..maybe even more than myself..sad to say but true. He means every thing to me..I depend on him. He treats me SO well, he reminds me a lot of myself..but he has had a worse life than I have. Which makes me feel even worse, that I feel so bad for myself sometimes. He's very sensitve, he is a pacifist, he doesn't want to hurt anyone, he does his best at everything and he needs me and loves me just as much as I need him, but you see we've been threw a almost sucide attempt..with him because he started to like someone else..he promised me he wouldnt ...

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I need advice! Is he a jealous controlling boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 1:34 pm

My boyfriend says we have a normal relationship. I try to tell him it's not. He expects me to tell him everyone I pass in the hall way at work, what they say and send him pictures. If they come in my office he says they only made an excuse to come and see me that things should be controlled differently and men should not be able to just walk in my office. He takes these things out on me as well. Last Friday my boss called me in his office because he was about to leave for the day. When the boyfriend called I wasn't at my desk. he called and left vmails that were rude and ugly and when i called him back and explained he Said "you were in the office w/ 2 men?" "What else happened" Would you feel as if he is sugge...

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Dating: when he turns 18 and she will only be 14! Legalities?


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 8:57 am

what will happen to my son if he keeps dating his girlfriend when he turns 18 and she will be 14

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Is it ok for me to feel like this?Should I trust him?


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 8:46 am

16/f
After a year or so of not seeing him,I made up with my ex boyfriend.We had some problems,so after 8 months of us being in a relationship we broke up and I was really hurt.Though I couldn't stop loving him no matter how hard I tried.I dated a lot of other guys after our break up but I just kept realizing I still love him.He didn't date anyone on the other hand because he really missed me,he says.My feelings for him are even stronger now,I love him even more but lately I noticed I get really turned on when I think of him and I started wanting to sleep with him.Is it normal for me to feel that and should I trust him? I love him and I want to believe he's changed,but idk what to do...

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i need advice


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 4:08 am

what is about my future


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Crazy Girlfriend


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 2:53 am

19/f

I have been dating my current boyfriend for about 9 months now and he is absolutely amazing. Truly, he has been my rock and I have never been so in love with a person. But I am afraid I am going to ruin this relationship because I get incredibly insecure about him talking to other women - especially his ex girlfriend. Granted, he is a flirt; but he has not done enough wrong for me to feel this way. This is how I realized that it wasn't him - it's me.

I trust him but I get so upset over little things, but don't tell him because I know they're irrational. But then they just bottle up. Honestly, a girl saying hello to him triggers something in my head saying "Stay away!" and I feel like I'm lo...

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Why he hasn't called?????/No 1st date at his house!!!!


Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 12:08 am

A guy That saw me walk buy one day when he came to my job asked his friends for my number. He got it and started texting me, finally he asked me out but wanted me to come to his house I said no and explained why I did not think it was appropiate and told him I'd meet him somewhere for a date. He then got ome and texted me to come to his house again so I just did not reply and went to bed he called me later but I did not answer.
He called me the next day we spoke and then he asked me for a picture I sent it to him and he did not call since. Do you think the main reason he didn't call is because he thinks I am ugly.

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ugh BOOBS.


Posted Monday May 24 2010, 10:02 pm

17/f
my boyfriend makes fun of my boobs. (1 yr) well not really but he calls them his torpedos because there kinda more pointier then round -________- to top that off im an A cup so yeah. i'm really insecure about my chest, but im not intrested in breast implants i dont care about my size just shapee... is there surgery or something to "round them" ? hahaa

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Advice for a strange guy looking for a nice girl?


Posted Monday May 24 2010, 8:11 pm

I am a 15 year old guy who's just finishing grade 10. I spend all my time making short and feature length movies mainly by myself and some of the time with my friends. Also I listen to alot of metal and instrumental techno music. I read books about the occult and death, along with really funny comic collections. I have never had a serious relationship, and I would really love to have one. I find it easy to become close to girls in a friendship way, so they trust me with anything but if I tell them I like them (which I have!) they get kinda awkward and won't want to go out with me. I know I'm not the best looking guy around, I'm very skinny, tall, glasses, and I have long hair because I love metal music, but I still think that if someone gav...

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Boyfriend dancing with another girl


Posted Monday May 24 2010, 5:24 pm

So my boyfriend was at an event thing where they had a dance, and he ended up slow dancing and dirty dancing with girls. Do I have the right to not like that, or am I crazy?

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Non-romantic boyfriend


Posted Monday May 24 2010, 9:38 am

I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We are absolutely in love with each other, but of course I've got a couple of complaints. He's not romantic, at all. I've asked him to take me on dates, or go do something romantic for a day, and eventually he may take me on a date (after me repeatedly asking and basically planning it). But he has never done anything like that without me asking. I can live with him not being romantic, but I think every girl dreams of a little romance in their relationship. How should I handle this?

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