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i want to be single, but i want to end up with him
female, 19yo
i don't know what to do anymore..we've been together for 3 years. lately i've been feeling like i want to be single, but the relationship we have is the greatest. i don't want to throw it away. i've been thinking about other guys and stuff. i don't know. i still love him. we've been close to ending it a few times, but cry then we're fine again. the truth comes out when you're drunk right? i hate it when he's drinking with his friends. they just play beer pong and have fun. and now they're playing for money..anyway..this is when we're about to break up everytime. he'll come in the room because i want him to. he'd be hammered and start arguing and he'd say the worst things that would ever come out of his mouth. i don't think he'd say anything like that if he was sober. besides all that, he's the greatest guy that i could ever be with.
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Your relationship isn't the greatest. Honestly, if it were, you wouldn't have these feelings. You've been in a relationship since you were around 16. Its a comfortable habit.
Sometimes one partner will grow up a little sooner than the other. I think that could be whats happening. You have matured beyond the partying with the boys stage & he hasn't. It might be time for you to move on for a while and see who else is out there.
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