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Boyfriend dancing with another girl So my boyfriend was at an event thing where they had a dance, and he ended up slow dancing and dirty dancing with girls. Do I have the right to not like that, or am I crazy?
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For one thing, where did you hear this from? Do you know if its true??
Secondly, I've had boyfriends that have slow danced with other girls, it wasn't like he was in their pants or anything, they didn't have a date and were kinda alone and look dejected so he danced with her once. Now, the dirty dancing may be a little too far. Talk to him. Find out if it's true. Boys have a different mind than girls do. We tend to over react on the littlest things he does and that is not good because then he'll get mad and this will end in a fight.
So, don't start a fight over something so small. He may not have realized he was doing anything wrong. In his mind he thinks he was at a dance and dancing. ]
ABSOLUTELY!!!! You have every right to be upset. If I were you, I would talk to him about it before you explode though. Tell him that you aren't comfortable with girls grinding up on him, especially if you don't know these girls. Tell him you are not sure what his intentions were but he really hurt you by disrespecting you in that way. ]
Yes! You have the right to feel the way you feel, but if you know you have a good guy don't run him off. He knows and you know when its innocent. But when he enjoys it a little too much, thats when you should get the talking.
Lillian ]
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