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Why he hasn't called?????/No 1st date at his house!!!!


Question Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 12:08 am

A guy That saw me walk buy one day when he came to my job asked his friends for my number. He got it and started texting me, finally he asked me out but wanted me to come to his house I said no and explained why I did not think it was appropiate and told him I'd meet him somewhere for a date. He then got ome and texted me to come to his house again so I just did not reply and went to bed he called me later but I did not answer.
He called me the next day we spoke and then he asked me for a picture I sent it to him and he did not call since. Do you think the main reason he didn't call is because he thinks I am ugly.


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just_ask_me answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 4:54 pm:
I'm sooo glad that you stood by your morals/boundary line. A guy inviting you to his house for a first date (when you two barely know eachother)? That is not right and a tad creepy. I definitely do not think he thought you were ugly, because he did see you before right? So never think that, because he noticed you and asked for your number. This guy was just looking for an easy lay or something. Don't change your morals for anyone, you should feel empowered. Don't worry about it either, if he really wants to see you and likes you, he'll ask you out on a real date.

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dearcandore answered Tuesday May 25 2010, 2:46 pm:
Sounds to me like he figured he wasn't going to get into your pants right away and lost interest. Some guys are like that. He did you a favor, trust me. You don't want anything to do with dopes like that. You'll realize that once you find a truly nice guy who wants to be with you so badly he'll respect your wishes and boundaries.

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