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The truth?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 1:59 pm
I was with a guy for 2 years and it didnt work out because 3 months into our relationship someone told him i cheated on him. we tried to make it work but in the end it didnt work out. i know my so called "cheating" wasnt the only problem but we had other problems couples do thanks to him thinking i cheated. i couldnt tell him that i didnt cheat because the people who told him i cheated were all in on it. i had no evidence to prove i was right and so much behind me that i figured to just act like i did and see what happens. dumb idea. we should have just broken up and left it at that but we both didnt. for 2 years i let him believe i cheated. the girl now messaged me apologizing for the rumor she started. i have her apology in an e...
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What is he thinking?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 10:17 am
Okay, so I've known this guy for about a year and we became friends with the intentions of hooking up. A year later, we still talk ALL the time and we've hooked up one other time since then with the occasional sext. He moved about four hours away and I moved away to college so we are about 8 hours away so I don't see him often. My problem is I want to know if this is considered a booty call or not because he still chooses to talk to me. I know he talks to other girls and he has had sex with others over the course of the year and he could easily just be talking to them as often as with me...He hasn't been in a real long-term relationship so that's why I would assume it's just a booty call.
But, at the same time, we've talked ...
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any tips?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 10:13 am
How can you tell if a guy likes you?
i know the basic "rules", but what if he doesn't like to show emotion and hates feelings?
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2 guys
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 9:47 am
so i've started to hang out with this one guy that i went out with a couple years ago . him and i are just friends, and everytime i see him i get alittle tingle.
butttttt, then there is my best friend who i've known for 3 yrs now. and he was my ex's best friend ( but now they're not because my best friend took my side over my ex's) but..everytime i see, think, look at this guy i get butterflies.
last night i hung out with my bestfriend ebfore he left for vacation (with a couple other people) and i had a great time! after i dropped him off, i drove away, and this song ( that whenever i hear it, i think of him) it came on! i couldn't believe it. but the thing is, i can't tell him how i feel, he has a thing with this other girl, ...
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He had to work???
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 7:52 pm
14/f
I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I invited him to a party on behalf of my team. He couldnt come (he tried, but got lost and had to have his mom come find him) but he invited me to hang out the next day one on one. I said he should bring some friends and we could go to the beach. He seemed really excited, but the next day he said he couldn't go because he had to work. We haven't talked since then; he's been off work for two hours. What should I do? Forget about him, text him, wait for him?
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mouth watering?
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 7:36 pm
when i see a hot guy my mouth waters. why is this? is it normal? lol.
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two guys,one big problem
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 4:58 pm
My boyfriend ,Joey, broke up with me a few months ago but we still hangout all the time and i guess you could say im still in love with him.He told me he has a few feelings for me still but not like he used to .and he says he sees me like his little sister so he wants to stay in my life.I'm glad he doesn't lie to me and tell me he likes me if he doesn't! When i was very young,about 3-4 years ago i was in love with Justin.We were so young and chaotic and lost our virginity to eachother and from then on ,he meant something to me.For 3 years I was crazy for this kid,and he never asked me out or told me he liked me.We would hangout every once in a while,talk a lot at certain points in our friendships,but basically just keep eachother out of our...
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why hasnt he texted
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 3:54 pm
I went on an awesome date he he texted me after and everything. i went on vacation he told me to text him when i get back. i texted and invited him out with a bunch of my friends. he said he really wanted to go but didnt know if he could make it and we could hang out later. i said thats cool just let me know. its been four days and i havnt heard from him. what is with that? will he ever text me? should i text him?
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Telling a girl I miss her
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 3:23 pm
I met this girl in February. Had a great time with her, we went out a couple of times, then school hit her and I didnt get to see her for months.
Last friday we went out and had a great times, but a part of me feels like perhaps I didnt give her enough attention. She was with her friends, so when I wasnt talking with her, I would talk with them.
Anyways, since Friday I have been struggling. I cant get my mind off of her and I dont know how to tell her I miss her. She lives 2 hours away, so I cant tell her face to face. I have no car here, so driving there is out of the question. I would love to surprise her, but I would end up just feeling weird, like a stalker.
I wanted to sned her a text,...
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will i be alone forever!
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 3:06 pm
I really dont get it but no guys like me. I understand that i am not the prettiest or skinniest girl but i think that atleast some people should be interested in me. Alot of people tell me i am beautiful but i dont get it because if i was guys would like me. I am a nice person and have a really good personality but guys always are just friends they never pursue me am i just destined to be alone for life?
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confused with everything
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 11:39 am
hey guys, so i haven't been on this site in a while, but i would really appreciate the help.
i'm 17/f and enjoying life right now.
about 7 monthhs ago, right before my birthday, new job, license..etc. my boyfriend/ex (of a a year and ahalff) broke up with me. it was a horrible break up, and we've talked on and off, but now its horrible. he hates me so much, and never wants to speak to me again because i called him out. he lied to all of his friends and i told him he doesn't have to , to be accepted. he now hates me. the past 7 months have been so bad, i would hate myself, and not think i was good enough.
but now i'm almost there, almost over him and the whole thing. there's this new guy ( not really tho because he was m...
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feeling like giving up all efforts on a relationship...
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 6:31 am
f/15
Is it a bad sign to feel discouraged in a relationship to the point where you just don't feel like you should be obligated to put any effort into a relationship anymore? My boyfriend and I haven't physically been with each other since two weeks before school ended (finals, APs, ect.) because there just wasn't enough time. I suppose I just feel like it's not the same if we're not able to see each other daily and live together like we do normally during the school year (boarding school).
This feeling has only recently occurred to me and I think the fact that I see a girl he used to be in love with who messes with his feelings and head all the time is flirting with him. He doesn't seem to be reciprocating th...
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confused
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 2:28 am
Well lets start off by sayin I'm lesbian and I'm 18. I have a huge problem I've dated a lot of people my age but I found this girl that is also gay but is 4 yrs younger than me. I think I'm falling for her she's everything I look for in a girl not looks but personality. The problem is how can I ever make it work because I think its against the law to date anyone under the age of 18 when u are 18 or older.People have told me maybe I should wait but its hard. I don't wanna lose what I have for her. And by the time she's old enough we prolly won't be friends. I honestly think she's the one never had that feeling for someone. I need help what should I do!?
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is my girl lying to me about things?
Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 12:06 am
I've been dating my girl for 6 months now, and I'm so in love with her.. but before me, she hooked up with a lot of guys and wasn't a great kid.. but then she met me and became an angel. i've done everything with this girl, and she promised me i was the first to finger her, eat her out and i was the first she gave a blow job too (sorry if this is too detailed) but then her ex boyfriend told me other wise.. and there is a rumor that she gave another dude head, and had sex with him, and that she gave another guy head. i've never cheated on her and i'm in love with her, i give her everything she wants. she tells me to put her on a lie detector test, so what should i do? believe her? or rumors??
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is there something wrong with me?
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 11:57 pm
okay i dont mean to sound stuckup but seriously i attract strange people fast.
ok so my exs have been the rejects of the school ; druggos, try hards, and just plain jerks. im known as the bubbly innocent girl who gets on with everyone . but i just dont understand why im attracting such horrible guys
15/f
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starting to have feelings for a good friend.
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 10:55 pm
so i just graduated high school and i have been really good friends with this guy since the summer of my freshman year. i never had really looked at him as more than a friend until graduation when he gave me a hug my heart just sank. he's given me many hugs before but this one was different. like i can't describe it. and after i broke up with my ex a few weeks ago i realized what i truly want in a boyfriend and he has all those qualities. the thing is that i'm afraid he won't be interested since we've been such good friends for so long. i'll see him this weekend at a grad party and i'm definetly not telling him i have feelings for him. no balls to do that whatsoever haha. but how can i hint it here and there? i don't want to get hurt, but i...
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He's been grounded for 2 months+, and we're fading.
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 10:11 pm
Since april, my best friend has been grounded for his grades. He's not allowed out, he's not allowed on the phone, or to use the computer. He became my boyfriend in June, while he's still grounded. It's been tough going out every weekend with my friends watching them hook up with guys, but never have I considered cheating or breaking up w/ him.
he's my best friend and i really don't want that, i just need to get through this. school's ending, which means that i won't see him every day anymore. He's still grounded (he was even grounded on his 16th birthday) and i don't think things are gonna get better this summer. (He was grounded cause he wasn't 'doing as well as he could' in school, grade-wise.)
He was on a...
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How often my boyfriend wants to see me ..?
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 9:11 pm
My boyfriend is very much in love with me; he makes sure I know it, also. We talk for about half an hour most nights and he sends me one or two "I love you" texts through the day. But he never makes plans to see me. For the first 6-7 months of our relationship, we saw each other strictly once a week-- granted, we were both in the same school and despite having no classes with one another, I made an effort to see him for a decent amount of time in school-- not so much the other way around.
After he left school in May as a senior, we've maintained this once a week thing. About every other week I suggest a second opportunity to chill and he either seems disinterested but obliging from the start and/or makes the hangout...
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My boyfriend and I
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 3:17 pm
Im 20 and so is my boyfriend, we have been going out for a year and 5 months. Well in the beginning everything was great but about 5 months into the relationship he would say things about girls in the street like "Oh id fuck her" or "Id do her" infront of me, like seriously you can think it but dont say it infront of your girlfriend. So from then on I was self concious about not being good enough for him and thought he was with me because maybe he thought he couldnt get anyone else.
Well time went on and we argued about the things that he said (and he doesnt say things as much anymore) but things still play on my mind, like he would say he would fuck a girl infront of me so what would he do behind my back....
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i think i maybe bi !! but i dnt wana break my family up
Posted Monday June 21 2010, 1:57 pm
hey im a 23 year old girl ive been with my husband for 8 years we've been married for 2years. we have a beautiful son together. I love my husband sooo much . but for the last 2-3 years ive been having sexual feelings towards women . i thought it was just a phase at first or a fantasy but still to this day i feel the same. i only seem to get arroused when i see or think off women in a sexual conent . am i bi? or lesbian or do u think its just a fantasy of mine
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