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is my girl lying to me about things?


Question Posted Tuesday June 22 2010, 12:06 am

I've been dating my girl for 6 months now, and I'm so in love with her.. but before me, she hooked up with a lot of guys and wasn't a great kid.. but then she met me and became an angel. i've done everything with this girl, and she promised me i was the first to finger her, eat her out and i was the first she gave a blow job too (sorry if this is too detailed) but then her ex boyfriend told me other wise.. and there is a rumor that she gave another dude head, and had sex with him, and that she gave another guy head. i've never cheated on her and i'm in love with her, i give her everything she wants. she tells me to put her on a lie detector test, so what should i do? believe her? or rumors??

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kiran answered Wednesday June 23 2010, 12:20 am:
Even if she did do anything, it was her past. Maybe she doesn't want to tell you cause she may think that you might expect more from her or she doesn't want you to judge her. You never know, she may have a reason. If she was cheating on you then you would have a problem. So the most I can say is give her the benefit of the doubt. There is nothing really you can do to make her tell the truth. It's her choice and its all if you trust her. So if you're in love with her, you'd trust her. Just tell her to be honest with you and that it won't change anything. If she seems like a girl you can trust then there shouldn't be much of a problem. Good luck!

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Tuesday June 22 2010, 9:14 pm:
We can't tell you whether your girlfriend is lying or telling the truth, You should ask her.


I can give you some facts..

Most girls, Do not wait very long to become sexually active with their partner.

This is where you ask yourself, How long was she dating her ex?...Is she a trust worthy person?..and REALLY think about that one.

You may never know the true answer, You can ask her but that doesn't mean she has to be honest about it as some girls just tell a guy what they want to hear. If her EX boyfriend told you otherwise...Well I would be iffy...Does he want her back?..Do they still talk?...It could be maybe he just said it because he knew it would get to you?


The question is, Do you trust your girlfriend?...I think you should be talking to HER about this one. None of us can tell you if she is lying or not...It's just one of those things you need to trust her on but again you may never get the real truth.

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