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Telling a girl I miss her
I met this girl in February. Had a great time with her, we went out a couple of times, then school hit her and I didnt get to see her for months.
Last friday we went out and had a great times, but a part of me feels like perhaps I didnt give her enough attention. She was with her friends, so when I wasnt talking with her, I would talk with them.
Anyways, since Friday I have been struggling. I cant get my mind off of her and I dont know how to tell her I miss her. She lives 2 hours away, so I cant tell her face to face. I have no car here, so driving there is out of the question. I would love to surprise her, but I would end up just feeling weird, like a stalker.
I wanted to sned her a text, but I feel weird doing that, however other than facebook, its all I can do... I was going to send "I miss you so much. I dont know whats happened to me, but I cant stop thinking about you..."
She has told me a couple of times, she misses me. But I just cant let this feeling be held up inside, its torturing me...
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Hey,
I can tell the feelings of care here are mutual.
She cares for you and you care for her (love her)
- Now... she has even told you that she misses you and this is something to take great note of because now you know how she feels and so should not be afraid to express your own feelings to her. She has opened up to you and I think it is only fare that you do the same.
- Something to take IMPORTANT note of here is that the key to a happy/successful relationship is to be honest and express each others feelings to each other... doing so will enforce feelings of care and love that you both have for each other. If this is not being done, the other might think that they are not truly cared for by the other and so feelings of care and love might start to fade away.
- I say express what you feel inside for this girl let her know that she is loved, let her know that you care about her. She needs that positive feedback from you and of course you will be getting that positive feedback back from her since she is being aware that you do care for her.
- Once you have said all the feelings you have been building inside of you to her, you will breathe in fresh air and be amazed of how "free" you might feel for expressing all the amazing things you feel for this girl.
- I don't know how she feels towards you because I am not psychic lol she might only feel a friendship love towards you or a romantic love towards you.
- YOU are the only one who knows this for sure because you are the one spending time with her and depending on the things you guys have been doing then it can be considered romantic or just friendly. This is your call, so if you know FOR SURE or just THINK you guys have a romantic connection, then go for it buddy! open the door to many amazing experiences that are yet to come out of this love story ha ha :)
- either call her and talk to her VOICE TO VOICE (NOT TEXTING THAT'S JUST NOT RIGHT IN MY OPINION)
having her listen to your voice will be better because it is coming 100% from you and not from some machine. but if you want to text her and can't do voice to voice, that's completely ok as long as what you write to her is coming from the heart and if it is, LET HER KNOW that what you are saying IS indeed coming from your heart and thoughts... she will really like that.
- I wish you the best and let me know how everything turns out if you have the time.
Best always,
-trueadvice3
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well if you really miss her, and shes told you she miss's u, then whats the shame in saying how you feel.
most guys dont want to open up there feelings and say how they feel.
when really if i guy told me he missed me i would think its sweet, and would want to meet with him sooner
as if you miss her and you tell her this it will make her feel special. so just tell her how you feel
because not telling her how you feel is not working out for you is it. as you say its torturing you. so you can not tell her and carry on the same way or tell her make her happy and you happy sa its off your chest :)
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