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will i be alone forever!
I really dont get it but no guys like me. I understand that i am not the prettiest or skinniest girl but i think that atleast some people should be interested in me. Alot of people tell me i am beautiful but i dont get it because if i was guys would like me. I am a nice person and have a really good personality but guys always are just friends they never pursue me am i just destined to be alone for life?
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Same problem here, you can tell by my name lol. I'm 15/M. Yes I feel the same way. I don't get it because I seem to be way more decent than most idiot boys at school. 4 Ex: the guys with gf's are the loud, failing, D' heads who cannot speak proper english, walk around showing their underwear, get in trouble, have no manners and even disrespect their gf's, and I cannot even call a girl a Bi***. theres one that I may have a good chance with, problem is that I think she is talking to someone else. ALL of my friends have gf's and I have not had one.
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No every one has a chance for love. You have to have confidence in yourself though. Be patient and if that doesnt work for you. Just let loose and go for the guy youve been wanting,You take the chance and you break the ice. If that doesnt work he wansnt the one and its just minutes untill he comes to find you.
Good luck
-dear.erika
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I'm going to guess that you're a teenager? About 15 or so?
This will be kind of a downer, but you probably won't get a ton of dates in high school. I certainly didn't. I was surrounded by guys, but they were all my friends, and I was stuck in the 'friend' zone.
It took getting out of high school and into university for the guys to grow up enough to realize that they SHOULD be dating their friends, because that's who you relate to best.
Don't worry. Once you're past the stupid teenage boy phase, you'll have to carry a big stick to keep them off of you with. Till then, rejoice in the fact that you're not dating anyone you'll regret later. Trust me; teenage boys? Not so appealing when you look back on them.
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Hey there,
No, no one is destined to be alone forever. I really thought that I would be alone for most of my life, but I just hadn't met the right person yet. I find that in order to get a guy, you have to find one you can see yourself with, then flirt with him, see how he responds, then make yourself comfortable with him. To meet the right guy for you, you have to get out there, go places you wouldn't normally go, do the things you enjoy, have fun with life, and be happy with who you are. The reason why the guys you know never pursue you, could be because you come off as only a close friend to them. Without you doing something to show your interest, such as flirting, the guys will only see you as a pretty, nice, girl.
Ultimately, it all comes down to expanding your friend horizons, seeing new places, and never holding back on what you really want to say/hear or do. When you are being at your best self, a guy will notice you. When you are letting all your interests and love for something show, a guy will notice you. When you are not thinking about the next guy that will notice you, guess what!? A guy WILL notice you. You are perfect the way you are.
You just have to let these feelings of being alone pass your mind and have an open heart. Be open to anything. If your guy friends say 'hey, I think I'm going to that game on Friday', say "Can I come along?'. It will show that you are up for anything and you aren't picky. Guys love a girl that does not hold back her inner self. You will find a guy that is right for you. Just get out there girl and find him! He is waiting... <3
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No. Sometimes you have to take the initiative to find a guy on your own.
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