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but i live my life with no regrets.
yur only young once,
so be bad,
break the rules,
get caught and make it count!!".
My name is Erika. Iam 16 years old. Going to 11th grade. Though that may seem a young age to be answering advice i would like to update your thoughts on that and for you to know iam very mature and i have been through so much in these 16 years of my life. Weather it be experincing love , death , divorce , and hate. i have been through it all and more. iam here to help any one at any age. Everyone deserves a answer.
Just ask Dear.erika
per sempre.
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Age: 16
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Hello :) well I'm 13 I'm going to start high school in september and my problom is I want to become a singer/actor i've gone to many auditions and I always get the part he only problom is I don't have any money :( b
niether my parents so I never call them bak so I kan go and at or sing I've gone to good places were Hanah Montana has become famouse or oher people like Brenda sonq . I always get he part nt like I said there's no money I dnt no what to do how do I become famous if I don't have the money and it's not cheap ot cost 1,993 dollors my family does t have that money what should I do? :/ (link)
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When you have talent you show it in your own creative ways. Sometimes you dont have to go to auditions although they help you get a step closer theres other ways. You can be in a talent show and show parents and peers how good you are and who knows they may know somoeone in the buisness you can sing in your town and at churches as well. When you go to high school make sure you sign up for musical theater and chours. The schools always go into competions and you will be heard.
Do you like modeling cause if you do DO NOT PAY A CENT. talent is free.
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sooo here are the basic questions ..
- how much does it hurt? i mean, it's a little piece of skin, little flesh, it can't be that bad, right?
- how much does it cost?
- how long does it take to heal or till you can change the jewelry? (link)
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-Its quick and the clamp hurts the most
-20-30 dollers.
-6 weeks to change about a 6months to heal
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so i'm thinking about getting one, but pain concerns me a bit. can anyone relate getting a tattoo to another type of pain/tell me what it feels like to get one so i can better understand what i might have to endure? thanks (link)
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Im 16 and i got a tattoo for my 16th birtday,
Iam terified of needles so bad that when i go to the hospital i still lock myself in the bathroom and they have to hold me down, but something in me wanted a tattoo so bad. i got one on my ankle going down to my foot. I was so nervous i siked myself out. It felt like a cold pinch the first touch then it just felt like someone was drawing on my skin with a pen that was running out of ink, It got hot then went numb and all i felt was heat and cold. To tell you the truth wiping it with a napkin was the most painful part.
I felt it was better to be soooooo scared to get and then it feels like nothing compared to what you thought it would feel like.
:)
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Could you please name some friendship bracelets? I know the fishrope, candy stripe, box, hearts, and zig zag. I want to try and make every kind. Thanks! (link)
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Be more specific. You can put all those that i mentioned on a string. You just have to have small holes in everthing so that it can slip on the string
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16/F
I was at my boyfriend's house and I heard his father yelling at his mother. He got really loud and then I heard him hitting her. I wasn't 100% sure until she said "Stop! That hurts!"
I haven't talked about it with my boyfriend but I really do not know what to do. I had suspected something was going on but never actually seen/heard it until today.
I have no idea what to do. Please help. (link)
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I think your boyfriend is allready informed with the situation and is scared him self it may push him away from you but this needs to be handled you can call in without any one haven to know your name or infomation .
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15/f
so i want to make a little extra money. im getting a job shortly but we are in the process of moving so in the meantime i would like to make some money. well i was wondering if i could trust online survey websites. i didnt sign up for any because a lot of them you have to be 18 or older. . . are there any i could take and please send a link for them that i can trust.
thanks (link)
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Its just a way for them to get viewers on there website.
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I have been dating someone for roughly 3 months now. Their last relationship was a very unhealthy, verbally and emotionally abusive one. My SO has decided that in order to move on in life, and our relationship, that visiting the ex to gain closure is necessary. The ex lives several hundred miles away. My SO intends on staying at the ex's apartment. I feel in general I have been really supportive, but I do have somer reservations, and am not comfortable with every aspect of this trip. In particular, do I have the right to ask my SO not to share a bed with the ex? Or is this something I should just expect (I do expect it, but should I make this expectation clear?)
thanks in advance (link)
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No you should tell your SO not to share a bed with The ex thats not what closure is. Your SO can simply meet the ex for lunch and TALK. There doesnt have to be any intimacy between the two. More than likey if Your SO spends the night with the ex some old sparks will imerge and something may happen. He can get a hotel for the night, Why do u have to stay with the ex.
Just tell your so you rather have your so to get a hotel for the night because of the fact your not comfortable with the idea of staying the night in the exs apartment.
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I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry?? (link)
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It is possible. Maybe the guy didnt enter all the way and you did. Or it could be the fact the her period is on its way.
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basicly theres this guy who used to like e and i rejected him, now i like him and now hes way outof my leage and we never talk.
how to get him to like me again? (its been a few years) (link)
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He might say you had your chance and you blew it ,
and maybe he is out of your leauge now because you rejected him and he wanted to be liked so he stepped up his game.
My advice for you is never give up on what you want but dont be obsessive just cashually send him a cute and silly text and go from there.
When the right time comes explain to him why you rejected him and why it was a mistake but make sure thats days away from were you began talking to him again
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so I have nooo idea what to get my boyfriend for his 19th birthday! he likes sports, he's gonna be playing pro football most likely, but idk what to get him ! :p he's such a sweetheart so I'd like to get him something meaningful I just don't know what :p any ideas? lol try and keep it under $100 :p (link)
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Since he likes sports maybe you can take him to a major leauge football game or get tickets to watch hIs favorite team in training games. You can also search on ebay for signed noveltys or such by his fav football player.
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14/f
I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I invited him to a party on behalf of my team. He couldnt come (he tried, but got lost and had to have his mom come find him) but he invited me to hang out the next day one on one. I said he should bring some friends and we could go to the beach. He seemed really excited, but the next day he said he couldn't go because he had to work. We haven't talked since then; he's been off work for two hours. What should I do? Forget about him, text him, wait for him? (link)
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I always tell the girls if he is who you want go for it. Dont ask him personal questions and dont ask why he hasnt talked to you. Just be cute and simple. If he doesnt text back just leave it he wasnt the one for you and go on to the next cutie.
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I really dont get it but no guys like me. I understand that i am not the prettiest or skinniest girl but i think that atleast some people should be interested in me. Alot of people tell me i am beautiful but i dont get it because if i was guys would like me. I am a nice person and have a really good personality but guys always are just friends they never pursue me am i just destined to be alone for life? (link)
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No every one has a chance for love. You have to have confidence in yourself though. Be patient and if that doesnt work for you. Just let loose and go for the guy youve been wanting,You take the chance and you break the ice. If that doesnt work he wansnt the one and its just minutes untill he comes to find you.
Good luck
-dear.erika
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I went on an awesome date he he texted me after and everything. i went on vacation he told me to text him when i get back. i texted and invited him out with a bunch of my friends. he said he really wanted to go but didnt know if he could make it and we could hang out later. i said thats cool just let me know. its been four days and i havnt heard from him. what is with that? will he ever text me? should i text him? (link)
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Maybe he felt pressured to meet your friends and wanted it to be a solo hang out. Sometimes guys feel uncomfortable with other people around because it makes it harder for a connection to spark and harder to impress you.
I think you should text him and simply say
"Hey stranger :)"
Just be silly and cute with it dont ask him why he hasnt texted you or any personal questions.
Good luck
-Dear.Erika
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There is this boy who I dated for 2 years. We loved eachother so deeply, (it was my deepest relationship I've had, and it's been 10 years since then.) He gets very defensive when he sees me with other guys, and he just stares at me with lust in his eyes.
I think he still cares about me, and I still love him.
What songs are similar to my situation?
SO far I have "Like We Never Loved At All" By Faith Hill.
Any type of music, I'm open to everything. Country to rap to pop to rock to jazz. (link)
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Only one song comes to my mind and its perfect for you situation, Pleaseeeee listen to this song;
Walk away by Paula Deanda
Another great song is wanna be with you by paula deanda.
:)
And if you are still in love with him and he is still in love with you, He may just be the one your meant to be with. Go for it.
Good luck.
Let me know if you liked the song.
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"Walk Away" lyrics
I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me
I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me
You gonna remember me boo
I'm gonna remember you too
I can't forget all the crazy shhh.. we used to do
You was doing too much
I wasn't doing enough
That's what your friends are saying
You got a man anyway
I can't explain it neither
I ain't never wanna leave ya
Hell ya its hard to walk away when I see ya
When I see ya I remember the day
You put your shoes on and moved on
Before I could say
I saw you with your new girl just yesterday
And I feel that I must confess
Even though it kills me to have to say
I'll admit that I was impressed
Physically just short of perfection
Gotta commend you on your selection
Though I know I shouldn't be concerned
In the back of my mind
I can't help but question
Does she rub your feet
When you've had a long day
Scratch your scalp
When you take out your braids
Does she know that you like too
Play PS2 till 6 in the morning
Like I do
I can't explain this feeling
I think about it everyday
And even though we've moved on
It gets so hard to walk away
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
Walk Away, Walk Away
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
I can't forget how we used to be
Our life from day to day
Hoping maybe you'll come back
And though I tell myself not to be afraid
To move on but it seems I can't
Though a new man has given me attention
It ain't the same as your affection
Though I know I should be content
In the back of my mind
I can't help but question
Does he kiss me on the forehead
Before we play
Show up on my doorstep
(with a bouquet)
Does he call me in the middle of the day
Just to say hey baby I love you
Like you used to
I can't explain this feeling
I think about it everyday
And even though we've moved on
It gets so hard to walk away
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
Walk Away, Walk Away
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
I'm Gonna Remember You
Your Gonna Remember Me
The things we did
The way we shared our fantasies
Just you and me
My friend, my love, my family
How did we loose a love that seemed meant to be
Sometimes I kiss her and wish that it was you I'm kissing
Sometimes I miss him and wish that it was you I'm missing
Sometimes I hug her and wish that it was you I was hugging
And I realize how much I'm bugging
I miss you
Walk Away, Walk Away
(I'm Gonna Remember You
Your Gonna Remember Me)
So hard to express this feeling
Cause nobody compares to you
And you know she'll never love you like I do
I can't explain this feeling
I think about it everyday
And even though we've moved on
It gets so hard to walk away
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
Walk Away, Walk Away
Remember You
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
(I'm gonna remember you
You're gonna remember me)
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Wanna Be With You"
(feat. V. Nice) lyrics
Ooh, ooh, yeah, yeah, yeah
I know that you wanna talk about it
But I gotta put it in your mind
I feel like we've been going through this story a thousand times
I feel like we've been going around and around in circles
Ooh why, we gotta put this behind us, yeah, yeah
Baby, listen to me, please don't walk out that door
'Cause if you ever leave me
I'd be lost, I'd be going crazy (I go crazy)
'Cause I don't want nobody else (no, no)
I just wanna be with you (with you)
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole
Why is it that everytime I looked in your eyes (looked in your eyes)
I see something wrong, insecurity
When all along I was trying make it right (make it right)
Keep us going strong, and loving you faithfully
Baby, listen to me, please don't walk out that door
'Cause if you ever leave me
I'd be lost, I'd be going crazy (I go crazy)
'Cause I don't want nobody else (nobody, no, no)
I just wanna be with you
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole
Ooh, baby
'Cause I don't want nobody else (nobody else, no, no)
I just wanna be with you (be with you)
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole (makes me whole)
Hahaha, let me holla, girl
Girl you're messing with a player
And a player will probably play ya
But a player thinks he's sticking with you
(I'm sticking with you)
Not a streets-create, so much distrust
That I'd probably redirect it to you
Now I ain't trippin'
We can kick it in the morning (yeah)
We can make it in the evening (yeah)
Stroll through the park with the Cali smoke grievin'
Believe it, I wouldn't even leave you for nothin'
That's why I'm man enough to say my feelings I ain't finding
Let's go on the road to the end of the sunshine
I'ma forget about your past, hoping you forgot mine
I'd be focus on my grind, you'd be trying to hold me down
I told you I'd be your boy
Come on, baby girl, let's ride (let's ride)
'Cause I don't want nobody else (no, no)
I just wanna be with you (with you)
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole
(I just wanna be, I just wanna be, I just wanna be with you, no, no)
'Cause I don't want nobody else
I just wanna be with you
(I just wanna be, I just wanna be, I just wanna be with you)
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole (you're the one that makes me whole)
'Cause I don't want nobody else (I don't want nobody else)
I just wanna be with you
(I just wanna be, I just wanna be, I just wanna be with you)
You're the only one who completes me baby
You're the one who makes me whole
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