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The truth?
I was with a guy for 2 years and it didnt work out because 3 months into our relationship someone told him i cheated on him. we tried to make it work but in the end it didnt work out. i know my so called "cheating" wasnt the only problem but we had other problems couples do thanks to him thinking i cheated. i couldnt tell him that i didnt cheat because the people who told him i cheated were all in on it. i had no evidence to prove i was right and so much behind me that i figured to just act like i did and see what happens. dumb idea. we should have just broken up and left it at that but we both didnt. for 2 years i let him believe i cheated. the girl now messaged me apologizing for the rumor she started. i have her apology in an email so i know i can prove that i didnt cheat now. but my ex and i have been broken up for 4 months now, should i tell him the truth or not. he just turned 22, im 20.
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well if you still like him
or want to prove that you were right
then why not, if you have still been in some sort of contact or plan to be with him againt hen you should go for it what have you got to lose,
even if he turns round and does not care, then thats his loss and and you have nothing to lose only things to gain :) x
hope this helps
good luck
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You could try to tell the truth, If you think it's worth the time and effort. However, To some people 4 months is a long time and feelings for someone over the course of those months can start to fade and in time we start to move on. I'm not saying this is the case on your part but it very well could be on his. Do you know what he is up too these days? Also, One thing that comes to my mind is IF you two did decide to date again I think you two might want to sit down and discuss where you to stand in the aspect of trust. Your relationship ended because he chose to believe others over you. No matter what or how perfect your relationships may seem there is always someone that is going to think otherwise. You and your spouse need to learn to except the fact that there will be criticism and ignore it. This girl that started the rumor, Save the email but at the same time IGNORE her. A fresh start if you two were to date again means ignoring all the drama if you have to ignore everyone who was "in" on breaking your relationship up and start fresh. If they were "friends" well I hate to tell you but friends do not back stab other friends.
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