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Getting over your boyfriends past...


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 11:57 pm

Well to make a long story short, my boyfriend of 2.5 years had these group of girls that he was all best friends with BEFORE we were together. I've always hated these girls because they're stereotypical, well to put it nicely, home-wrecking sluts. Well, when we very first started dating, he broke up with me after 3 weeks because I didn't like him talking to them still, and he knew I hated them. The night he broke up with me he hung out with all of them, and they posted pics of him and them on facebook, with the girls all over him. I later found out he lost his virginity to one of them, like a year before us getting together. 3 months after this we got back together, and have been on and off since. My question is, how do I get over this situ...

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Does this make me bisexual?


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 10:44 pm

i'm starting to think i might be slighly bi. i love my boyfriend to death, and i know i could never go out with a girl. i couldn't even hook up with one. i don't even like hooking up with guys. but when i'm drunk with my girlfriends or something, i always end up kissing them. i heard that drunk actions are sober thoughts, but i don't think about kissing girls when i'm sober. and also, most of my friends know that i'll admit that i think boobs are pretty. i don't know why, but they just are, and i like having them. my friends also know i'll be the first to admit that girls are absolute bitches, myself included, and i'll never go out with one, like i said earlier. does it sound like i'm bi or what?

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family involved in my gay breakup


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 6:53 pm

Ok i'm a 15 year old female for starters...just about 2and a half weeks ago my girlfriend and I broke up because my parents dont accept the fact that i am bisexual(more lesbian) although we had been together only 4 a month i developed strong and i do mean strong feelings for her to the point where right now i am still having problems dealing with us not being together. I still have times at night where i cry just because we aren't together and from missing talking and being with her. how do i deal with this?

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Finding The Courage To Kiss Someone??


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 4:37 pm

How do i get the courage to kiss someone?? I've got the perfect boyfriend for it who understands everything but I don't have the guts it's not like he will care If I stuff up I just have no idea what I'm doing or how to get the courage to just go for it ?!?0

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What does it mean when a guy says this?


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 3:17 pm

What does it mean when a guy tells his friend "She Was Ripe And I Didn’t Have To Exploit Her"?
What did he mean by that?
I am a virgin,what is he talking about?

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Does my ex bf still like me?


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 2:04 pm

I am really confused cuz I think my ex might like me and we broke up in may of last year. We started out as friends and now were right back at the friendship level. We were together for 2 years keeping our relationship a secret from everyone. He ended it with me because his parents were suspicious and confronted us and didnt want us together. They almost found out about us but didnt because we lied out way out of it. He told me he was to scared and couldnt stay with me because of his paretns. He said he loved me though. We never speak of us every being together now its like it never happend. We still hang out everday almost just as much as we were when we were together. I have heard from his friends that he said he still had feelings for me...

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Is this a normal fetish? Or am I just psycho?


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 1:39 pm

Well, first off, my boyfriend and I have been going out for approximately nine months. We're extremely close, we love each other, we want to get married some day...er, well, that is, later in life. We have strict agreements that nothing's gonna happen until after college.

A few months after we started dating, I took him with me to an anime convention. I asked him if he would dress up as the character Grell Sutcliffe from one of my favorite shows, Kuroshitsuji, who (if you haven't seen it -probably-) is an openly-gay, flaming hunk of sunshine. I called him brave when he agreed to do it, and when we did, we had a great time.

Ever since then, though, this small idea of crossdressing...well, he's started taking it ...

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My best friend


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 4:23 am



Okay, first of all I'm sixteen.

Here is my question: My best friend who is a girl(I'm a guy) asked me a couple of Saturdays ago if I would ever date her. I said yeah sure. Then the Monday of that week she kissed me, and I liked it. We hung out on Wednesday and Friday that week and we kept kissing, Wednesday was probably the most intimate kissing though. And I don't know how I feel about her and I don't think she likes me. But I can't stop thinking of her kiss. It's pissing me off also how she is acting to it. She is being kind of mean to me and telling me she doesn't care anymore and that makes me feel bad. I just want to sort out my feelings because now she thinks I like her, and I honestly don't know because...

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Men and women: Do you think a woman should get hit back for hitting a male?


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 2:31 am


I know most people might say no, men shouldn't hit a woman back. But I think that if a woman thinks shes big enough to hit a man she should be hit back. I think that a man should only hit a woman in self defense. There are women out there that hit men when they get mad over something stupid and expect not to get hit back and sometimes they try to fight the man, while they expect him to do nothing but walk away. Im a woman and I think that if a woman hits a man she should be hit back. Just like if a man hits a woman for no reason she should hit him back. Im not saying that a woman should be beaten by a man though. Ive seen women hit men, bite scratch,threaten with a knife and chunk stuff at them. The man is supposed to sit there and ...

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fingering ..why do guys like it


Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 12:18 am

20F.

I'm just wondering ..why do guys always try fingering a girl first? It's like they want to so badly but I don't see what they get out of it? Do they finger a girl because they think they'll get some in return? Does fingering a girl turn them on? I guess i'm just confused. And if a guy fingers you ..don't you feel sort of obligated to pleasure them back??

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Im not physically attracted to someone I like what do I do ???


Posted Tuesday August 17 2010, 10:57 pm

Ok I am a 24 yr old female... I have been friends with a guy for almost 8 years now. He has always had a crush on me but we have always just been friends... he understood that I didn't like him in that way and we have remained friends since. However recently we have been talking to each other alot and I think I am starting to like him. The problem is I am not physically attracted to him AT ALL!!! I know this sounds crazy but for the past 3-4 years he has been long distance in the military so I only see him once a year. So its really his personality and how much he cares for me that I like but when I think of trying to be in a relationship I just can't picture it. I am just not attracted to him. What do I do? I keep telling him that I am j...

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Iss this possible ?


Posted Tuesday August 17 2010, 10:21 pm

Iss it possible for your Mind not to listen to what your hearts says. I go out with this boy currently and im in love. && Here is another boy i used to go out with my mind wants to be with my ex. But my heart wants to be with current boyfriend. It gets so confusing at times. So is this possible ? I wonder !


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should i just leave him alone


Posted Tuesday August 17 2010, 5:11 pm

Okay so I been with this guy for a year and 8 months this summer we broke up because he said he can not focus in school , but I don't know why that's a reason to break up. We could have just spoke less if he really loved me , so any ways I been doing my own thing having fun chilling with my best friends and I guess he. Been reading my facebook status and he see that I been having fun so he said he wanted me back and I took him back. But not even two days went by and we broke up , he wants me to wait and he tells me a real women waits but I feel that u should make someone wait , and I seen he been commenting females picture say they sexy and all that mess and it hurts . How you tell me to wait but you talking to other girls , and when I talk...

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I don't have a boyfriend


Posted Tuesday August 17 2010, 1:32 pm

Hi I'm Alexandra and 13 years, I'm from Romania. I like a boy in my class, but he knows, in July has a birthday and I was also invited, but I told him that like him, I just sent a message on messenger, and do not know if you read the message. I want to tell him that you like, but do not know how to tell. Please help me
P.S. I have not had until now a boyfriend

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What does it mean for my boyfriend to say I am too emotionally immature for


Posted Tuesday August 17 2010, 4:19 am


We are both 22 and I don't act immature at all. I'm more mature than he is around people. Why'd he say that?

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The guy I like has never had a girlfriend.....?


Posted Monday August 16 2010, 11:03 pm

Hes only a year younger than I am & I was hoping if i stay close enough to him that I could possibly ask him to prom which will be in May. I wouldn't ask right away of course.... How can I stay close with him? We are friends but now we both don't have one class together this year making it difficult.. He also has never had a gf before so shes shy & wouldn't ask me to hangout.. How can I take charge? Should I ask him to hang out as friends & see where it goes & have him get used to hanging out with a girl. I need suggestions. Thank you in advance.

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Did I mess everything up with him?


Posted Monday August 16 2010, 7:07 pm

so i am a 13 year old female. i have been talking to this older guy (16). we flirt a lot. i thought that he liked me but then when he asked me if i liked him and i said i dont know. he told me that he didnt really know either. now things are a bit weird. did i mess things up by saying that i dont know when i kinda do.

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What is taking him so long?


Posted Monday August 16 2010, 4:29 pm

okay so i started a new job about a month ago..and i started talking to this guy who works there who i thought was kinda cute like the 3rd day this lady who works there said he thought i was cute and i said i thought he was too and the next day he said what did she say to you about me and i said well she said you thought i was pretty cute and then later that day he asked for my number...then like 2 weeks later last week he asked me if i ever wanted to go out sometime and i said sure and he said alright ill let you know the details later and now its been almost a week and a half since he asked that and he still hasnt asked me out....but at work we always work together and he helps me with stuff and talks to me and does that both look at eac...

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how do i get it through his head ?


Posted Monday August 16 2010, 4:27 pm

well, go out with this boy as yall know. tommorow is our first month anniversary. we talk on the phone but its allways at night time. && he is hardly ever texting me! && every time i bring it up he gets an attitude. i really like him a whole lot. imm falling in love with him. but im not used to talking to any of my boyfriend this less. && he thinks im cheating on him. its really not that bad but sometimess it iss. how can i tell him That i am not cheating on him and we should talk more and to trust him when he says he isnt cheating on me ?

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Communicating with girlfriend after a breakup , i am scared to do it. Help!


Posted Monday August 16 2010, 3:28 pm

two days ago my long distance girlfriend said she didn't want t really continue with our ongoing relationship. We have been in a logn distance relationship for about 2 years. I was pretty hurt when she said it , and it was partly my fault but i felt really guilty and hurt that i wasn't able to do anything. Its been 2 days since we haven't communicated and i have been extremly depressed and don't get sleep at night.

Just a few minutes back she texts me saying 'Goodnight' . Should i reply back to her? i really don;t want to and i really don't want to work on the relationship because i put a lot in it initially but in the end when i wasn't getting anything returned i took it lightly. I really don't want to get back but i really...

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