okay so i started a new job about a month ago..and i started talking to this guy who works there who i thought was kinda cute like the 3rd day this lady who works there said he thought i was cute and i said i thought he was too and the next day he said what did she say to you about me and i said well she said you thought i was pretty cute and then later that day he asked for my number...then like 2 weeks later last week he asked me if i ever wanted to go out sometime and i said sure and he said alright ill let you know the details later and now its been almost a week and a half since he asked that and he still hasnt asked me out....but at work we always work together and he helps me with stuff and talks to me and does that both look at each other look away thing if they like you and he smiles and laughs at everything i do so im guessing he likes me lol but i just dont understand whats taking him so long. Im really into astrology and well im a saggittarius and hes a cancer and i read that their shy guys,you usually have to make the first move and that their hard to read...soo im just really confused what is he waiting for?
thanks!
Tan answered Tuesday August 17 2010, 8:35 pm: He likes you, and you know it. What are you waiting for exactly? Tell him about a new film you wanna see, and if he shows an interest in it, suggest you go together. I don't know how old you are but even something as simple as asking if he wants to go for a drink after work could get the ball rolling.
You just need to get things happening outside of work.
Do you have his number? Ask for it.
He'll realise he's an idiot for not texting you. Texting is great for making plans you know... lol.
kibawolfe answered Tuesday August 17 2010, 1:46 am: HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Oh god I've like the same boy for 2 years and he used to like me for a year or two and he knew I liked him a bunch of times but he never asked me out so consider yourself lucky ahahaha! xD Anyway, ask him what's a good time, plan a date. He might just be afraid, guys are very weird. Good luck get back to me! :3 [ kibawolfe's advice column | Ask kibawolfe A Question ]
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