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The guy I like has never had a girlfriend.....?
Hes only a year younger than I am & I was hoping if i stay close enough to him that I could possibly ask him to prom which will be in May. I wouldn't ask right away of course.... How can I stay close with him? We are friends but now we both don't have one class together this year making it difficult.. He also has never had a gf before so shes shy & wouldn't ask me to hangout.. How can I take charge? Should I ask him to hang out as friends & see where it goes & have him get used to hanging out with a girl. I need suggestions. Thank you in advance.
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I had a similiar situation as you do. Freshman year of high school, there was this beautiful boy who I found out was a junior. He was new to the schOol and sat alone at
lunch. I was shy and h didn't have any friends for them to introduce us or something like that. So me abs him would
make eye contact a lot, and one time he even came up to me. But neither of us said anything, haha. Then my sophmore year I was determined to talk to him. I thought of all these schemes ad tricks to make it work, and finally by the end of the year, I just went up to him and said hi and gave him a compliment. After that, we dated for a year and a half. We just recently broke up because he is going three hours awayfor school, and I didn't want to hold him back. He always told me how he was happy I made a move because he's so shy, he's not sure if he ever would have.
So my advice, is just be forward, I hate being forward and win the one to approach but sometmes you have to. Do you have his number or talk to him on facebook? If you two like the same band, text him o whatever and say "hey did you see so&so have a new song?" that's always a good way to keep things going. Compare your schedule, maybe you cab walk with eachother.
Shy guys always take more work!
Good luck.
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