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Does this make me bisexual?


Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2010, 10:44 pm

i'm starting to think i might be slighly bi. i love my boyfriend to death, and i know i could never go out with a girl. i couldn't even hook up with one. i don't even like hooking up with guys. but when i'm drunk with my girlfriends or something, i always end up kissing them. i heard that drunk actions are sober thoughts, but i don't think about kissing girls when i'm sober. and also, most of my friends know that i'll admit that i think boobs are pretty. i don't know why, but they just are, and i like having them. my friends also know i'll be the first to admit that girls are absolute bitches, myself included, and i'll never go out with one, like i said earlier. does it sound like i'm bi or what?

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jada_lynne answered Friday August 20 2010, 4:29 am:
No... it doesn't sound to me like you're bisexual. It does sound to me like you need to tighen up on your drinking though.

I know it's fun to drink with your friends and act crazy but when you start kissing other girls...you're out of control.

Now before you start thinking I'm older and don't 'get' it, let me explain. If you're at a bar, and some other girl starts getting too drunk and is kissing all the guys in the bar...what is your impression of her? Think that over. I won't bother to tell you what I think because I feel most of you will agree with me.

Swapping spit with the same sex somehow became the 'in' thing to do when drunk. It's attention seeking behavior...period.

The bottom line is you need to get control of your drinking. When you start doing anything under the influence of alcohol that you wouldn't do sober, it only means that you've had too much. Get yourself in check and learn to drink within acceptable limits. In other words, don't drink until you're drunk. It's unattractive and won't lead to anything good.

I wish you well,
Jada

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday August 19 2010, 7:42 pm:
God only knows.

You might not be into bisexuality at all. You might just enjoy attention when drunk and be someone who isn't disgusted by naked people of the same sex.

You might be too repressed and uncomfortable with the idea to ever think about it sober.

Time will tell. You might go a long period of time without kissing a girl and realize you miss it and want to do it again. You might eventually hit the point where you exit the party phase of life and never think about it again.

Don't feel in too much a hurry to label yourself. If you are bi, there will be time to explore it. If you aren't, you'll figure out out, date guys, and not care.

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staceyxlove answered Thursday August 19 2010, 10:30 am:
no, you aren't bi. think about this: how many times have you done something you regretted when you were drunk?

if you're anything like me, that's quite a lot.

alcohol brings out different sides to people. if you are sober, and having thoughts of kissing/dating girls then that would be different. p.s. I like having my boobs too! =D

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BeachBlondie12 answered Thursday August 19 2010, 1:28 am:
Nooo, your not Bi. We love our best friends and we have no problem kissing them. We share food/drinks, make-up, clothes, shoes, everything with them. I dont mean randomly making out with your best friend but after drinking it happens, no big deal. So what its all in fun. Girls like attention and kissing another girl defff brings it in. I think its all in fun. Girls everywhere do it.

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soendearing answered Thursday August 19 2010, 1:15 am:
Doesn't sound like you're bi to me, more like bi-curious. That's normal. You're good (:

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