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should i just leave him alone
Okay so I been with this guy for a year and 8 months this summer we broke up because he said he can not focus in school , but I don't know why that's a reason to break up. We could have just spoke less if he really loved me , so any ways I been doing my own thing having fun chilling with my best friends and I guess he. Been reading my facebook status and he see that I been having fun so he said he wanted me back and I took him back. But not even two days went by and we broke up , he wants me to wait and he tells me a real women waits but I feel that u should make someone wait , and I seen he been commenting females picture say they sexy and all that mess and it hurts . How you tell me to wait but you talking to other girls , and when I talk to him about it he says its just a joke , he thinks I'm talking to other boys cuz I be hanging out late but I'm really not , and me and him go to the same school so I'm going to be seeing him everyday, I don't know if I should just leave him alone.he was my first and from my understanding your first is the hardest to let go , I just wanna be happy , I'm just confused
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I am kind of in the same situation. I tried and and to get my boyfriend back. Nothing really worked but i still hang out with him everyday. I am just going with the flow. Somewhere deep inside of me i think we have a chance. If you stay out of his life then it will be over for good. The key is if u always stick around in his life no matter how hard it may be you always have a chance of getting back together. You never know things happen.
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Well , it seems he was confused , wasn't ready for anything too big , but that's okay that's normal , and well I guess if you really love him , you let it go right? But I see he wants you back so it might be meant to be , if it comes back it's yours right? But , if he thinks your hanging around with guys and stuff and your not? Obviously he's jealous since he's bringing that up and looking at your facebook stuff right? and really why would he care if he ended it right? Obviously he's not over anything , but show him if you want that your not doing what he's possibly assuming. I mean , if you don't know then your confused too , but it is hard to let go , but is it worth it ? or are you willing to wait till it get's worse and try to let go later? I personally would leave it alone , if he wants he can , and not necassarily that a real women will wait , sometimes they do sometimes they don't , depends on the person. I'm sure he's missing out on a wonderful girl like yourself. Don't worry about him , he'll be back.
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ya this is my advice, you can take it or leave it. Id leave him alone. From wat you are talking about it seems that hes just not ready for a commitment and you fall for it everytime. Just leave him alone cause evertime this happens its going to hurt more and more. I agree that breaking up with you first because he needed to focus on school, well im sorry but if he really loved you, he would do anything and everything to be with you, no matter how hard it is. The truth hurts, but you have to look at wat has all happended and see how each time it either changed something and how it made you feel. Trust is a big issue in relationships as well, so when you too were together, you would both have to trust eachother into not cheating. Just ask nice to him when you see him at school. Move on, it will be hard but there are lots of others out there that would treat you with more respect. If you wanted you could confront him, talk to him and ask him how he feels about you, if he loves you and such and see where he sees you two. If you guys arent on the same page after you talk, then move on. Just figure out wat hes thinking, you may be surprised. I say move on, find a new relationship. But congrads on the 8 months cause that is a really long time. because it was so long, your gonna hate wat im gonna say, but some guys SOME get bored with the same girl all the time and then they break up and find "fresh meat". after they do that, they havent found someone like you then they come crying bk to you. IN ur situation he saw how much fun you were having and wanted to get into it. He seems like he dosent want to be with you for you. Just leave him alone and be single. im sure a nice girl like you will find another guy that is 10 times better and loyal to you. Good luck! Hope this helped! If you have any more questions feel free to ask, id be glad to help!
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