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in love & hurting bad.
Posted Saturday August 21 2010, 1:04 pm
This is the first time I've ever been in love. And I'm upset every day.
He broke it off because he can't handle a relationship now. He says he still loves me, and always will, I'm amazing but there's too much 'bullshit' and things going on in his life.
I don't even want to look at another guy. I want to wait two days and have this boy come back to me saying he thought it over and he wants me back, for good.
I'm in love and hurting so badly; what happens now? How do I cope and what do I do...
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How to make sex for the first time not hurt at all?
Posted Saturday August 21 2010, 7:38 am
How do you make it not hurt at all, besides using lubricant. Im scared that its going to hurt because hes big and I dont want it to hurt real bad because I know it will. My friend told me that having sex for the first time feels like your getting knives stuck in you... and the the pain is unbearable. I dont want it to feel that way.. Please help
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He's Kind of a Player , Can I change that ?
Posted Saturday August 21 2010, 2:53 am
I Kinda like one of my friends but he is a total player & gets in every girls pant's he's with I want him to change for me but I don't know if he will , what should I do ?
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yes but no.
Posted Saturday August 21 2010, 1:57 am
Okay well I recently just got dumped by my bf about a few months ago. There's this other guy that came into the picture and we both like each other. BUT he's not wanting a relationship right now and to be perfectly honest I'm not really right now either. We slept together once. I talked to him about his intention tonight and he told me that I'm not just a girl he wants to use and dump on the side of the tracks but like I said he's not wanting a relationship. I was a tad bit disappointed in. Hearing this so all I said was alright. I would eventually like a relationship maybe if hed be willing to but right now I'm willing to. Just be fuck buddies for right now. I think he got the impression that we couldn't be that anymore either. What do I s...
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Is it True or Fa;se Love ?
Posted Saturday August 21 2010, 1:44 am
Okay , so I'm pretty shore I'm in love with my best friend he is Bi , but I'm not He's dating someone &nd he still likes me but He said that we could try dating again when he &nd his boyfriend break up , But I'm not fully shore if I am in love with him , because I kinda like someone else , I don't even know if I like him , I think it's because the one I think I'm in love with is to far for me to see right now , but we talk everyday . Am I really In love or is it just false because I may have feelings for someone but not as strongly I have for the other ? Please Help .
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HE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE!
Posted Friday August 20 2010, 9:14 pm
several months back, i was in school and my boyfriend was neglecting me. he'd rarely ever call, always forgot our plans, etc. i didn't want to completely lose him, so i didn't dump him. then a guy that i'd had a crush on a few years back started telling me he liked me and so i decided to hook up with him, bad mistake number 1. we didn't have sex, all we did was make out. but i regretted it as soon as i got home that night and was really sick for the next few days. he'd asked me to hang out again and i blew him off, so he got peeved and started ignoring me and being pretty rude, but i didn't care anymore.
well now its many months later and he started texting me every few days. i don't reply to them. i've realized i'm completel...
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At 15 I have had sex with 5 people and oral with 7: What do you think about this?
Posted Friday August 20 2010, 6:30 pm
I've been called a "whore" around my neighborhood and I know some people who think "oh she gets around". But I don't act that way... People who don't know me think I'm all innocent.
I'm 15 and I've had sex with 5 people(and multiple times), given oral to 6 or 7 including those 5, and I lost my virginity when I was 14.
At this point I'm having sex with my boyfriend a few times a week.
Is this bad? .. Like, have I done too much for my age? What do you think..?
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partner's guilt
Posted Friday August 20 2010, 8:22 am
I am a 45 year old divorced female. I have recently been in a relationship with a wonderful unmarried forty year old man. We get along beautifully, the sex has been fantastic, and he is literally the nicest and most honest guy I have ever met. He tells me he feels the same and always wants me around no matter what we are doing. We even took a trip to Europe together and it was perfectly relaxed, comfortable, easy, and connected. I see literally no problems.
He has recently decided he cannot have sex with me anymore and we can only be friends because he feels guilty about the sex. We have never cheated on anyone, done anything really weird, lied to each other...He agrees that everything is perfect but then says, "If...
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dose this count as cheating??
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 11:48 pm
ok so like today i went on a bike ride with my best friend her kinda bf like there talking and his friend. when we were close to being home we all stopped to talk and then my friend road off on her bike but i stayed to talk and like my friends kinda bf was like telling his friend to touch my boobs and i didnt care whatever. but the jimmy her kinda bf was like if u flash me i willl moter boat u and i rly wanted him to because i rly like him to so i did and he moter boated me then he was feeling me and i was like i gtg see ya later and i left.
so what should i do should i just keep it between me and him or tell her ??
and dose that make me a slut?
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getting over you songs
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 11:36 pm
what are some good songs that say im over you?
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He needs space, but might 'try' us later
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 11:29 pm
My best friend and I just broke up from a great relationship. He has a lot going on with his family, such as two family members with cancer, helping his dad at work, watching his two year old sister, etc. He broke it off with me because he needed space and can’t handle a relationship right now.
I, of course, didn’t understand it. I thought I could help him through everything being his girlfriend and standing by him. I understood he couldn’t give me all the attention I wanted, and I told him that. He said to take his word and he just needs space, and then he will try and we can rebuild things.
Thing is, I don’t know how long this space is. It could be days or weeks. What am I supposed to do until then? I...
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boyfriend,
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 11:07 pm
my boyfriend and i have been togehter for 1 year thank GOD =D i jsut wanted to know, whenever he explains how much he loves me, he starts crying.. is that a good thing ? :)
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Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 8:48 pm
So. My ex boyfriend and I had dated for seven months. Then one morning, he broke up with me in a text message. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore. He was sixteen at the time, I was fourteen at the time. He's sixteen now, I'm fifteen now. It's been three months since the break up. While we were dating things were pretty bad. He pressured me into a looot of stuff. Like fingering. He physically forced me to give him a hj. And he made me feel guilty for months until I finally gave him a blowjob. He dumped me four days after the bj. I was messed up while we were dating... I honestly don't know who that person was. I was totally whipped, and I don't know why I thought anything he did was okay... but I did. Since the split I've realize...
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Looking for a third chance
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 6:37 pm
My ex and I broke up around Christmas because we were both dealing with too much stress to handle a relationship. Then two months ago we randomly reconnected and it was wonderful... but yet again, we broke up. This time it's because it was a long distance relationship. I think we made a mistake by ending it again... Now I'm just wondering, what can I do to keep him in my life?
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uncomfortable?
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 4:53 pm
I think I have a bad problem... Whenever I meet someone new or somewhat new.. I really can't get any good words to come out of my mouth like I want to...
My problem is that I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for about 2 weeks now. I find it really hard to talk to him.. He always has to bring the conversations up, and he's so open to me. The only time I'm comfortable talking to him openly is right after sex, honestly. I'm just afraid that he's going to leave me already because I seem like such a boring person who doesn't talk much. But really.. it just takes me a lot of time to get to the point where I'm that comfortable to talk freely.
Please help... Why can't I say what I want to? Is there something I ...
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Should i love him?
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 3:52 pm
The thing is ive been trying to set him and my best friend up. Shes like inlove with him. Well i ended up falling for him and he fell for me. i feel awful for doing this to her. Its not like i ment to i was seriously telling him all about her and how much she likes him. Then one day he told me he has something to tell me, i gave him my number. Te texted me and told me he likes me. Thats when i realized i liked him. So somehow my best friend found out and shes too nice. I really like him but im afriad to go any further with him because what happend. He told me he loves me, i havent said it back yet. I know i love him. He has come to my house and i haven't told my friend anything cause i dont want to make her sad. I kneed to know if my happyn...
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what does it mean if i a boy does this?
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 1:59 pm
what does it mean if a boy who is a friend or an ex bf finds exuses to be around u like to come over and hang out? and if he always stares at your breast and likes to pick u up all the time and play with you hands.
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i don't know that much about sex
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 3:25 am
excuse me, but my boyfriend and i want to be physically together, but i don't know that much about sex. can i have some advice please?
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Is is normal to feel pain from being horny?
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 1:19 am
Okay so my boyfriend came over and we made out and I got horny.. and My underwear was soaked but we didn't have sex, I wasn't even barely close to his private parts. He left and Now i'm like jizzing in my pants thinking about what happened. and Im having some pain In my lower abdomen it's the same pain I feel when I'm ovulating, is this a sign of anything Like pregnancy or Infections?! My back is kind of hurting to and I'm getting pains on one side of my hips then the other side, it's really wierd I mean no sexual intercourse happen I was wearing jeans and he was wearing shorts, but they werent jean shorts But i'm just wondering is this pain Im feeling normal? Oh and by the way im 13. And my period is supposed to be coming sooon so are thes...
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moving to another state but my wife dont want to
Posted Thursday August 19 2010, 1:18 am
Hi I've been with other half 6 years. We got married a year ago. We get along 60% of the time. I do love her . We don't have kids. She and I have good jobs. Our social life was great. Now. I really don't want to go and do the same things we did mainly. Bars.clubs I'm 34 now. I rather stay home and tell her to go with her friends. I have many toys like boat.jetski.4 motorcycles. A custom truck. Newish s.u.v . And 2 other trucks. I am a beach person. So anyway I always went to Florida for Vaca and enjoyed the sun. So now I'm asking her that we should move there. But she 1 doesn't want to leave her family and 2 her job. Witch is a second grade teacher. Now don't get me wrong but I love new York. But its radicals expensive here and I'm tir...
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