Okay so my boyfriend came over and we made out and I got horny.. and My underwear was soaked but we didn't have sex, I wasn't even barely close to his private parts. He left and Now i'm like jizzing in my pants thinking about what happened. and Im having some pain In my lower abdomen it's the same pain I feel when I'm ovulating, is this a sign of anything Like pregnancy or Infections?! My back is kind of hurting to and I'm getting pains on one side of my hips then the other side, it's really wierd I mean no sexual intercourse happen I was wearing jeans and he was wearing shorts, but they werent jean shorts But i'm just wondering is this pain Im feeling normal? Oh and by the way im 13. And my period is supposed to be coming sooon so are these symptoms a sign of my period. Oh and i've been constipated lately so maybe are these symptoms coming from the lack of poop.? please help i'm scared.
bigunored1 answered Saturday August 21 2010, 4:30 pm: Well let me start by saying this is probably normal .you see a man can get blue balls by getting excited about having sex but to where he thinks he's going to get it and then something happens like almost getting cought and he's all worked up that his testicals fill up with seman .but since you are a woman its like the same your ovares fill up with eggs and get swollen too .and the only way to relieve the presure is to masterbate .it sounds kinda weird but it works .iv had this problem before plenty of times it can be painful but if you do what I said it will go away trust me .I'm no doctor but been there before .its like filling a baloon with water the more you fill it the bigger it becomes to the poin where it exploeds its the same way with you or anyone eles to that matter you have to realease the presure .hope this helps [ bigunored1's advice column | Ask bigunored1 A Question ]
BeachBlondie12 answered Friday August 20 2010, 11:48 pm: Okay, well one thing... your 13 years old, your hormones are going crazy. Your experiencing new things and your body is changing. The pains could be from your period coming. I get sore and cramps to from my period thats completely normal. If you havent had sex, there is obviously no way your pregnant. & being constipated could also cause the pains. Your 13, dont rush to grow up and do things with your boyfriend. You have PLENTY of time to do those thing. You also have a lot of lessons to learn about boys and such before having sex. Sex at your age is very bad for your body also. If you got pregnant, you could die while having the baby bc your body is not fully developed and ready for a baby. Its harsh i know but its the truth. Dont let him pressure you either sweetie, you'll be glad you waited. Trust me.
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