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HE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE!
several months back, i was in school and my boyfriend was neglecting me. he'd rarely ever call, always forgot our plans, etc. i didn't want to completely lose him, so i didn't dump him. then a guy that i'd had a crush on a few years back started telling me he liked me and so i decided to hook up with him, bad mistake number 1. we didn't have sex, all we did was make out. but i regretted it as soon as i got home that night and was really sick for the next few days. he'd asked me to hang out again and i blew him off, so he got peeved and started ignoring me and being pretty rude, but i didn't care anymore.
well now its many months later and he started texting me every few days. i don't reply to them. i've realized i'm completely sick of him and i just want him to leave my life completely, but he won't. and i don't want to tell him that cuz i'm afraid he'll get pissed and tell my boyfriend what i did. i don't know what to do! i can't tell my boyfriend, he'll be so hurt. and i really screwed up a couple of months ago and he gave me a second chance, but now if i fuck up again he won't give me anymore chances. i know i probably don't deserve him but i don't want to lose him. we're a lot better now, almost perfect. what the hell do i do?
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You have to totally ignore him. Don't answer, nothing. Do not speak one word to him.
What you do next will depend on whether or not you think your boyfriend can beat up your stalker. If this guy is afraid of your boyfriend, he's not going to say anything. If he's not afraid of your boyfriend, he's definately going to say something. If you think your boyfriend is going to find out, you have to tell him first.
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i've been a in a similar pickle. you need to tell the boy to stop calling and texting you. and if he continues to do so you need to file a harassment report with the police. And don't delete any texts or missed calls or whatever from him because you'll need it to show to the police.
As for your boyfriend yeah you shouldn't have done what you did, but last time i checked everyone makes mistakes. You should just tell him what happened and tell him you thought it was a mistake. It's not the other guy's job to tell you anyways. I hope i helped.
Nikita
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