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"Look to the future"
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 9:43 pm
My boyfriend and I had a bit of a fall out a few months ago and we nearly broke up, just something about that happened in the past. He said that we should stay together, forget the past and look to the future, he thinks we've got something good.
Well I've been thinking about the words "look to the future" and I'm not entirely sure what he meant by that.
We've been seeing each other since January, and I'm 19 and he is 24 if that means anything.
I mean this means that we're going to last and its getting serious, right?
Thanks
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17 year old with a 30 year old?
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 4:44 pm
I have a friend who is a girl and shes 17. She was dating a guy that is 30. He has tatoos all over his body; he was in the pen for 10 years, and he does cocaine, and sells drugs. They were together for a year on 9/1, but they broke up last friday because he got mad at her for not takin him to west nashville to pick up some drugs, (he was already messed up on coke) and he started yelling at her, telling her he was done with her skanky ass, and hes got plenty more dimes than just her, and she was a bitch, and started callin her dead mom a bitch too. So she said some mean things while she was crying. She took him to his moms house to drop him off, and he was acting like he wass going to hit her, and he kept threating her to take him up the st...
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ugh im so weird/obsessed?
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 4:20 pm
so there's this cute guy in my class in my English class. well i decided to do a little facebook stalking and when i got one i realized that he's 22 (3 years older than me) married, and he's a pastor at this church that one of my acquaintances go to. I felt weird because i kept looking at his facebook. and in English class, i was being stupid and gave him a dirty look and he gave one back to me. then when i smiled at him later he gave me another dirty look. i did this again and he smiled at me. it was really weird. i feel so weird because i keep thinking about him like an obsessive freak. well anyways i guess i did all that because i was embarrassed and upset that i kept going to his facebook and found out that he's married and a pastor bec...
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now i am left sad and confused
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 2:01 pm
ok so i broke of with my ex bf last year. he broke up with me. it was very hard to go through and it took alot of getting used to. i had to start lving the single life style and it was hard to accept it. i still hang out with him everyday pretty much almost as much as i used to when we were together. i still have feelings for him and i think he might but he just doesnt want to admit it and he plays all this games. i have had one bf after him and now we have been seeing eachother everyother night. so i left his house to go meet up with him and i have been seeing him everyother night starting last week like being sneaky and i came back to my ex bfs house and i saw a hickey on my neck and said who gave u that and then he was laughing making fu...
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If It Hurts, Then Why Cant We Be Together?
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 10:08 am
About a month ago me and my boyfriend broke up (I broke up with him due to something that had happened between us, nothing too serious) He begged for me back, and eventually we got back together. Last week we spoke about that happening, and he said he thinks that for the best we should break up.
We have spoke since and he was undecided whether to try again. He's already been thinking about it for a week, and told me he doesn't want to give it another chance. After speaking to him again he changed his mind and said he wasn't sure because he didn't want to keep breaking up and getting back together. I know this won't happen again, not on my part any way. He said he loves me and he still wants to be with me, just the circumstanc...
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he's moving.
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 2:34 am
sooo i'm 18 and i've been with my boyfriend for two months now and we reallyyyy like each other, found out today he is moving to alaska for college which is farrr far away. I feel like he hasn't really talked to me about it or thought about what's going to happen to us, I don't want to bring it up I want him to. Any advice? :/
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how should i handle this?
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 11:23 pm
so me and this guy started hanging out towards the end of summer. we hung out twice and hooked up twice. both times he initiated it. (he made the first move), he called me beautiful and texted me basically everyday. now he won't even talk to me. he'll say hi in person but he won't ever text me anymore or anything. one of his good friends said that he just doesnt want things getting too serious cause his ex was crazy but i honestly just want to hook up with him haha. what should i do? how should i handle this? should i just pretend to be uninterested and see if he comes back? i don't want to seem desperate but i want him soo bad haha. i'm not good at these stupid games someone helpp. thanks.
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Bleeding after intercourse
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 10:24 pm
I just got home from my boyfriend's house, we had sex twice, the first time there was no blood after, the second time after he pulled out there was a few drops of blood, I am about a week away from my period, and I am on BC. What could be the cause of this? Has this happened to anyone else? I am not a virgin, p.s.
16, female.
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preparation for moving in together?
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 9:15 pm
my boyfriend and i have decided that when i graduate (next may) we're gonna save some money up together and move in together. we see eachother a lot during the summer but during the school year only 3 times a week, at most. our sex life is pretty good. i'm just worried that moving in together will make us sick of eachother.
any advice on how to not get totally sick of seeing his face everyday?
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This guy
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 8:54 pm
16/f
So I like this guy. He's two years older than me. I'm a junior he graduated high school and will leave for college in a few months. We're pretty much best friends and pretty close. I usually see him about twice a week and I'm also best friends with his sister so I'm around him alot. He's into me also but we both know nothing could happen because of the age difference. I mean I know age is just a number but he's leaving so it's kinda a problem. So yeah, we have each others numbers and text every once in awhile and facebook. He starts the conversations most of the time. I do every once in awhile.
The thing is, I try to play it cool. He doesn't know I like him but I'm pretty sure he could tell I'm into him. He tells me I'm ...
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I'm depressed and there's this guy...
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 8:30 pm
So, I kind of have been falling into a chronic state of depression lately, and I have this guy friend that I ritually confide in. Because of my depression I've gotten really oblivious and often forgetful, which subsequently makes talking to people incredibly difficult (losing train of thought, can't think of things to say). Most of my friends have given up on me, and I guess I'm steadily becoming part of the anti-society. In fact I've become terribly evasive and spend my breaks skirting all situations that involve having to talk to people in attempt to save myself from embarrassment. When I talk to this guy, it's usually through texting and what not. He insists that I go hang out near the band room again, which I am trying to do, but I feel...
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Falling for my friend.
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 7:49 pm
So I'm a female teenager in high school. And I'm falling for my friend...who is also a girl. I've always known that I didn't like guys. Growing up I was never interested, never had feelings. When girls started getting boyfriends, I didn't. I just viewed them as friends.
Anyway, I have yet to come out to well...anyone. The only people that know are my online friends.
But anyway, last year I met this girl (my crush) and we became pretty good friends. I didn't see her much during summer, but once school started back up we started hanging out a lot.
She's openly bisexual. And I feel like there's just something...there. More than a friendship, but I don't know how to go about telling her! The thought of it kind of scares me...
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bf is overprotective
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 5:00 pm
So a little bit about me... I'm fifteen and a sophomore. I have a boyfriend, seventeen, junior. I LOVE cheerleading and tennis I dedicate a lot of time to both of them. My problem is I feel like my boyfriend is overprotective. He gets really worried about me when I'm out of town for cheer and stuff. He's also always telling me to eat more or be careful or remember a jacket... I know he does it because he cares but it feels like he's trying to be my dad anddd my boyfriend sometimes... haha and that's just weird! He's also really protective when it coems to other guys. One year at our county fair a guy grabbed me and took me off behind a ride, he tried to take off my shorts but I got away before anything happened. When I went this summer my b...
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tattoo
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 4:53 pm
i just found out that my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years will be moving across seas in the next 8 months and i dont know if ill ever see him again weather or not to go with him or stay in the states its hurting me the sad news but he needs to go back for him and his family. im going to be 18 in a matter of a month or two and he is my best friend i have. and hes the love of my life. he is the a big part in my life and just someone i thought would always be with. i want to get a tattoo that has a love quote that i know is about him and he gets one that he knows about me and i want a design to go with it not to big not a long lovey quote but just some ideas and where to get it. thatnks
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a person
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 9:35 am
What does it mean if you keep dreaming of a person?
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how do i keep the relationship mysterious?
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 3:27 am
hahahh so i want to keep my boyfriend superrr interested in me, what are some ways to seem mysterious, you know so they question things and feel like they need to keep doing things to keep meee interested? Get it? Haha thank youuuu. :)
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he confuses me
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 2:40 am
Sooo i'm 18 and i met this boy two months ago. We had an immediate connection and he became my boyfriend the next month after we met. Things were great and now he has these days where he seems uninterested. I like him a lot and I know he likes me too because he tells me so, i just don't understand why somedays he acts uninterested in me. I've been through this before and i hate it, I don't know what to do about this.
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Confused on getting back with my ex?
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 11:36 pm
Ok, I posted a blog about a week ago, asking about my boyfriend Michael (now ex). I was having mixed emotions, so according to the advice, I broke up with him last sunday. He said he still wanted to talk to me like old times, and hang out, even. This whole week has been easy, yet hard. I told him on Thursday, I'd think about if I wanted to be with him, or if I just wanted to stay done. Friday night we went to a haunted house, he held my hand, and I started to want him back the whole night we spent together. Instead of jumping quick into the decision, I took my time. Saturday when I got off work, I picked him up, and he came to my house. We wresled like old times, and I had an urge to kiss him, so I did. I still ain't sure if I want to be wi...
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Avoiding me?
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 10:56 pm
I talked to a guy i like on facebook IM. Ever since then, he always appears offline while online. He never did this before, at least not to my knowledge. Is he avoiding me? :/
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Am i moving to fast?
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 10:44 pm
Hello,
I am in need of advice. I have been dating the same man now for about a year, Hes amazing and all I could ask for. Thing is he is in the army and was deployed about 9 of the months we have been dating, aso come to find out he will be trasfered to a different state in about 4 months. We have discussed me going with him, but I am going to move into a place with him in a few weeks here first to see if we even could live together since we never have. I am not sure if I am going about things too fast. He is just a great guy and I dont want to give up on him just becasue of the situation. I know that I will not go with him unless he and I get married, but that is something I am keeping to myself because I connot just tell hi...
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