Question Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 10:56 pm
I talked to a guy i like on facebook IM. Ever since then, he always appears offline while online. He never did this before, at least not to my knowledge. Is he avoiding me? :/
Xerxxes answered Tuesday September 14 2010, 4:50 pm: I have noticed as the person below me said, that the facebook chat is slow. Also if they are on an ipod they might not be on the chat, so they can't see what you said without looking at the chat on the ipod. Another thing is the chat is always logging people off as soon as i click their name, it is actually just saying their offline because of whatever. I looked it up once but forgot exactly what it said, Just talk to him in person whenever you can and ask him, or send him a message or ask for his number. Its facebook, i've learned the hard way that facebook isn't gonna improve your socializing skills. So get off facebook and talk in person. I can't talk to girls in person but with a computer as the talker i can or my phone i can and im breaking that habit so talk in person! [ Xerxxes's advice column | Ask Xerxxes A Question ]
TheAnnie answered Monday September 13 2010, 10:17 am: I have over time reaized that facebook chat is incredably slow in showing us who's online and offline. A lot of the times I would notice my best frined on and click to chat with her only to find she was offline. I'd text her asking why she went offline and she'd respond by telling me she had been offline for a long time. So, maybe that's what's going on with him.
Also, would he have any reason to avoid you? Did you guys argue or say something that he might get mad at? If not, then he would have no real reason to be upset. You can always try writing on his wall and see if he responds.
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