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Am i moving to fast?
Hello,
I am in need of advice. I have been dating the same man now for about a year, Hes amazing and all I could ask for. Thing is he is in the army and was deployed about 9 of the months we have been dating, aso come to find out he will be trasfered to a different state in about 4 months. We have discussed me going with him, but I am going to move into a place with him in a few weeks here first to see if we even could live together since we never have. I am not sure if I am going about things too fast. He is just a great guy and I dont want to give up on him just becasue of the situation. I know that I will not go with him unless he and I get married, but that is something I am keeping to myself because I connot just tell him that. I'm very confused. Any advice would be helpful at this point. Am I in over my head?
Shelly
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The best thing about people in army is that they go by principles and they know how to respect other's people principles too. That's what they are taught in military school.
The best thing would be to just communicating with him instead of hiding. Tell him what you are thinking when the time is right. Don't tell him just like that.. wait for the right time or make it right by making the situation...when he's totally stable.....
A wise man always understands the need of a women. and what you need is totally fair and that's what every woman would want
Good luck :)
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