Member Since: September 12, 2010
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Dad died in 1998, Mom died last year. The eldest brother in our family of 6 siblings had been named executor of the will. 20 years prior my Father allowed one of my brothers to defer his payment for his purchase of a seashore vacation home ($25000.00) that he owned in partnership with his brother until his estate was settled. Dad's brother was paid in full for his half. Dad did not specify this in the will but took my brother at his word with the understanding of other family members. Now that the estate is being distributed, the seashore house-owning brother is currently claiming the property was a gift and that he owes nothing to his siblings. He is threatening to sue for an equal share of the residual amount of the estate, and he is casting insults about the executor brother and implying he is a conniving thief by withholding the money for the property. Since the sale of this home it has appreciated by at least $100,000. A partial distribution has been made but the disputed debt amount is being held in an escrow account. It is causing a breakdown within segments of our large family. The brother who denies the debt now has a daughter about to give birth. In what should be a happy time, the issue is causing havoc with family members emotions. I believe any other of us would have taken the deduction without question but this brother, who is very well off financially with a six figure pension, is refusing to acknowledge the debt now that both parents are gone. He is trying to gain support from one of the sisters, who wants nothing to do with the issue. The lawyer for the estate says there is a decent chance to collect the debt but the opposing lawyer sent a message to all that he would pay $1000 to each sibling as a "courtesy" but now has withdrawn the offer after an ultimatum date has passed. As it stands the only people that are going to get any money are the lawyers. What should we do??? (link)
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Hi,
The facts that you told are not very clear. For example.. whose actually the money was ($25000) .. And the whole transaction is a bit confusing....
Kindly email me the facts of it with some more elaboration. And i will try my best take give a suitable advice from my brother, who is a lawyer in canada.
And also tell me your location of jurisdiction.
Here's my email ali_leo12@hotmail.com
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well, this question is honestly about a friend of mine. I met him at college and hes a pretty nice dude, hes one of my many new friends.
the problem is that he's got some pretty long hair, and whenever he hangs out with me in my dorm, and his hairs fall out and i find them later in my chair, on the carpet, on my bed. etc his suite-mates also complain about his hair clogging up the shower drain. they've been able to talk him into cleaning out the shower a few times a week, but i don't think its reasonable to ask him to stay out of my room all the time, or to clean up after himself before leaving...
I'd rather see him fix his problem of hair falling out. His hair near the top of his head seems to tend to get a little greasy towards the second half of the day, and it looks a little thin and maybe damaged overall. the ends don't look terrible though.
Of course he could just get his hair cut, but he seems to be pretty adamant about keeping it, and i'd probably be a bit disappointed to see it go myself, its unique for him. The big question is simply what can he change to make his hair reasonable? i dont know any girls whose hair falls out like his does, and girl hair generally looks a lot nicer than his, too. As far as care, he's said he uses aussie shampoo and conditioner, and he dries his hair with a towel in the morning. i'm not sure about what he does for combing or brushing though.
so, is there any must-do advice for keeping long hair from falling out? or did you notice anything in his routine that could be changed to keep it from being weak or greasy? ive never had hair thats long enough to have to worry about these things, but id like to help him out. any advice would be appreciated (link)
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i heard that from someone who read that from somewhere that using towel on the hair right after the shower weakens the hair. so maybe he should just leave the hair for some time and then use towel on it......and the other thing is that using shampoo on the daily basis also destroys the hair...
My honest advice ... Politeley ask him to see a dermatologist who could actually fix the whole problem....
GOOD LUCK
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Okay so I'm a 19 year old female. A little history on my situation. There is this guy that is apart of the hip hop company with me in a professional dance company. He has made it very obvious that he has feelings for me and has even told me this. I get creeped out by him because he is so straight forward. He will text me asking what I'm wearing like every night, and he is just a creep. Anyway, last night one of the girls in our dance company had a party. I am usually not a partier but since it was with this group of people I did not see the big deal. I took about 6 shots if not more and needless to say I was very drunk. Everyone knows how much I get creeped out by this guy and regardless of this fact they left me alone with him. I passed out on my friends bed and when I woke up I was on her couch and he was on top of me. We started making out for a long time which I know was stupid on my part but I was so drunk that it didn't even matter. The next thing I know he took off my pants and started fingering me. I am unfortunately not a very outspoken person and I didn't tell him to stop. Before I knew it he was trying to have sex with me. I wasn't sure what was going on until I felt him go inside of me and again I just kind of laid there not knowing what to do. I know that this is all my fault because I didn't say no....... but he knew how drunk I was and I just feel so taken advantage of. To make it worse, this is how I lost my virginity...... I need to talk to him and let him know that that was not okay. I have to see him on a regular basis and I just don't know what I should say to him.... I feel SO stupid about this situation. I am a girl who never gets mixed up in this type of drama. I have talked to many of my friends about it, but I need outside advice....... (link)
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First understand one thing....the concept of sex for males is totally different as it is for females....specially in early 20's and teenage.
i remember that i just wanted to have sex just anyway...without wasting my time on a girl or having some real feelings for her...so that's what i would do...i would start chatting with a girl and in no time tell her that i like her alot and the next thing on my mind is SEX...
i know it sounds preety unfair...in no time i realised how wrong it is..and now my perception of sex is totally changed...now i dont want to hurt any girl anymore...Now there's one girl and i'm taking real slow with her, and whatever the way she likes....
So my advice for you is.......Go talk to him, tell him that you didn't want this to happen and it was a mistake..and he should not take you that easy ... i hope that he understands
OR before saying something discover about him..Talk to him like before and see if his behaviour is changed or he has the same feelings for you.........If he still cares then just take it forward without runing anything..but if he ignores then try to make him understand....if he does understand then good for both of you but if he doesn't then just try to forget as if it was a mistake and live your life forward .....
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Ok iv posted this before but I can't seem to understand why it is that people at my job is so freakn trashy .I come to work every day to a dump and I do mean DUMP .I work my ass off to clean up their mess that they leave behind because they won't do anything all day from the time they clock in up untill they leave and when they do leave they know what they are doing cause they sneak out the back door to leave so they won't face me .they throw their trash on the floor instesd of in the trash can .they won't sweep mop take their trash out nothing .but when I leave my shift for the night it is spotless only for me to return to a desaster over and over again and too me its maddnes .I'm in a pist off mood every day iv talked to the manager about this and its like oh well .well I'm sick and tired of working with slobs .but the way the economy is it would be eise to just quit. And the thing is I have to clean the store for the morning shift and they know I have too but i m tired of all this so what's. The verdict should I stay or should I go (link)
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i would hate to work in the same environment as you have described....you have talked to the senior and nothing changed....it's just that those people are crazy and they dont know how to maintain proper working conditions......As a business student i advice you to give a final warning before you leave...something like 'From next time i would really appreciate if you guys use the trash can property OR otherwise i would have to leave this job'... if next day is the same than just try to find another job...there is nothin more important than self respect which everyone deserves
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hahahh so i want to keep my boyfriend superrr interested in me, what are some ways to seem mysterious, you know so they question things and feel like they need to keep doing things to keep meee interested? Get it? Haha thank youuuu. :) (link)
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hahahaha...very interesting., you think alot like me.......well here's the deal....i'm a music crazy person and i listen to music and also play guitar...but the thing is, that i never play infront of many people specially her...hahaha people who have listened to me tell her that i play really good and she wants to listen to it...why i dont play infront of her ( that's a mystery)....
Sometimes when she's chatting with me i say 'wait a sec i need to do something really important'. infact i just go here and there, drink water,smoke a cigrette etc. when i return she asks me what did i do and i reply like ' nothin important' i just wanted to take care of something'.....
so the thing is....keep doing things that people dont have much knowledge about and dont discuss everything infront of him...but dont ignore him, just stay in a very lite and fun mood ;)
keep chillin
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Hello,
I am in need of advice. I have been dating the same man now for about a year, Hes amazing and all I could ask for. Thing is he is in the army and was deployed about 9 of the months we have been dating, aso come to find out he will be trasfered to a different state in about 4 months. We have discussed me going with him, but I am going to move into a place with him in a few weeks here first to see if we even could live together since we never have. I am not sure if I am going about things too fast. He is just a great guy and I dont want to give up on him just becasue of the situation. I know that I will not go with him unless he and I get married, but that is something I am keeping to myself because I connot just tell him that. I'm very confused. Any advice would be helpful at this point. Am I in over my head?
Shelly (link)
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The best thing about people in army is that they go by principles and they know how to respect other's people principles too. That's what they are taught in military school.
The best thing would be to just communicating with him instead of hiding. Tell him what you are thinking when the time is right. Don't tell him just like that.. wait for the right time or make it right by making the situation...when he's totally stable.....
A wise man always understands the need of a women. and what you need is totally fair and that's what every woman would want
Good luck :)
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