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ugh im so weird/obsessed?
so there's this cute guy in my class in my English class. well i decided to do a little facebook stalking and when i got one i realized that he's 22 (3 years older than me) married, and he's a pastor at this church that one of my acquaintances go to. I felt weird because i kept looking at his facebook. and in English class, i was being stupid and gave him a dirty look and he gave one back to me. then when i smiled at him later he gave me another dirty look. i did this again and he smiled at me. it was really weird. i feel so weird because i keep thinking about him like an obsessive freak. well anyways i guess i did all that because i was embarrassed and upset that i kept going to his facebook and found out that he's married and a pastor because i had a huge crush on him. lol and he got extra point for starting the roll sheet by writing his name and he forgot to put a plus so i did it. lol i don't know what to do but i feel bad. help?
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Hello.
You shouldn't feel so embarrassed about this :/. The fact is that tons of people are out and about (or should I say home and alone) stalking away on Facebook. Facebook stalking has virtually no consequences because the person has no way to know who has been checking out his page. It could become a bad habit thought; like all things, it is best in moderation.
Anyhow, I feel that, if anything, it was great that you looked him up on facebook. He's a married man! This means that you can now freely move on. Imagine if you hadn't known this and if you had flirted/pursued him only to learn this information later. I'm sure it would have been more upsetting at that point. He may be attractive, charming, etc., but there are plenty of men that fit this description. I suggest that you try to see this as a learning lesson and possibly try to scope out more cute guys. I'm sure you'll find a nice single one in no time! :)
Take care <3.
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