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Nervous around crush


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 11:29 pm

I sit across from my crush in class and we look at eachother all the time and its cute but also awkward. we dont really talk that much but just stare. last year we sat closer and were friends and pretty normal around eachother. i dont know what to do because i feel very tense and uncomfortable everyday during class and it looks like he feels the same. we're both 16 so you think we'd be past this whole staring game. i dont want to confess but this is getting kind of ridiculous. what should i do?

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Still wondering..exclusive or not?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 10:55 pm

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=585592

okay so that question gives a background of my situation...we have hung out a few times after this and he texts me every other week...but we havent hung out in about 2 weeks...2 weekends ago he asked me to go to a party that weekend and before that he told me that his roomates werent going to be home that whole weekend..and i knew what that meant and im not like that unless im in a exclusive relationship you know.It was my sisters birthday the night of the party my whole family was over so i stayed and didnt want to be rude to my family but he seemed to really want me to go cause he texted me like 3 times that day if i was going which never happens and he also texted me that nigh...

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Turning a guy on


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 7:13 pm

I like a guy at school, how do i get him hot, turn him on? stuff like that?


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boyfriend issues......


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 5:48 pm

OK so i was dating this guy for a year and we broke up because he found out i ALMOST cheated on him. yea it was stupid but i say im over him i truly didnt love him tho i thought i did and now he talks shit about me to his friends and the only he dated me is because he wanted to have sex but he was 13 and im 15 so that wasnt gunna happen. but i dont know like if im over him if i should go back to him if i should hate him i just dont know and like im dating my ex from two years ago again and i think its a big mistake. so what should i do? advice please!!!!! 15f 9th grade

-mina</3

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Why do I always feel alone?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 4:47 pm

16/f
I don't know what's wrong with me.Lately I feel alone all the time.I don't have a lot of friends,but the ones I have are a gift from God and they are always there to help me and hear me out.But it seems it doesn't matter,I still feel alone.I don't have a boyfriend right now,which really bothers me...and I know it shouldn't...but since I'm single I feel unattractive,invisible,as if I'm boring...I also know it's stupid that I only feel beautiful when I have a boyfriend,even though people tell me I am and I don't need a bf to prove me that.I feel as if no one is ever going to notice me and I'm gonna end up single for the rest of my life.This makes me sound shallow,I am aware of it.But that's just the way it is and the way I feel...

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Moving in together?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 4:37 pm

18/Female. (sorry if its long)
I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend who is 17 years old. And I live in my own 2 bedroom apartment. I used to have a roommate but she decided she didn't wanna live with me anymore. So i am currently living alone. My boyfriend says that once he turns 18 he wants to move in with me. He will be 18 in March. I would love it if he moved in with me but I am wondering if moving in together could ruin our relationship? I honestly don't think it will but I want others advice. For example, one of my best friends started living with her boyfriend at age 17, and they were together for a long time but they did fight. Eventually they ended. I am still friends with that guy and he says that it might ruin my relati...

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in door activities?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 1:48 pm

19/m

I have been with my girl for a little over a year and i'm starting to get bored with doing the same things all the time. Don't get me wrong, i'm not bored with her by anymeans but we do the same things every time we see each other. Usually i get to her house and it's all lovey kissey for about a half hour and then we either listen to music(which i hate doing but she don't know that) play guitar hero(which i enjoy) or watch a movie. It's been like this forever and i would like to "spice" things up, but i don't know what to do. plz help.

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Scared to have sex withh him .


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 10:42 am

I really like thhis guy he's sooo cute and i just wanna have sex with him soo bad .but im scared bcuz i told ive lost it already but i have nott and hes gonna know bcuz i donnt think ive popped my cherrry yet and since i havent had sex yett i donnt know how im going to react to it and i really dont wanna embarres myself .Whatt do i dddo?

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How to get over him?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 4:25 am

Me and my boyfriend ended our relationship 3 weeks ago (he made the decision) but it was down to me that the decision was made. It's quite hard to explain, but we broke up over an argument that we'd had a week before (we'd argued over it all week) He said it made him feel unwanted and like I didn't want to be with him as I suggested a "BREAK"
He's so perfect for me, he really is. When I have broke up with exes in the past, of course I have been upset but not to this extent (and my last ex I was with for a year longer than him) We've been trying to get back together since the break up, but it's not working out at all. He's told me he loves me so much to my face (last week) but he doesn't know whether we should get back toget...

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wheres the love ?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 12:38 am

Ok here's my situation iv been in my relationship with my girlfriend for 5 years .we've been living together for just as long .but the past 2 years everything seems to be going down hill and I'm almost at the bottom if not there all ready .you see we haven't had sex in over a year and I do a lot for her but to me she doesn't see it .I bust my ass on 2 jobs provideing for her and I get the cold sholder .I ask her why we don't have sex and she explains it hurts way too bad .but she won't get checked out she says it cost too much money and we don't have insurance .I fell I give and give and she takes .but what's in it for me .NOTHING ! Its like what I do I don't get any apreciation for anything .she works one job and goes to school but she doe...

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"talking" but not dating; jealousy?


Posted Monday October 4 2010, 12:37 am

Okay, so I have known this guy for like almost a year. When I first met him, he had a girlfriend. So we became really good friends; basically bestfriends, but we never hung out. I started to like him, a little more than I would let myself believe. Well now him and his girlfriend have been broken up for almost four months, and they was originally together for 11 months. So, about 2 months ago he told me I was the first girl he has cared about since his ex. He told me he liked me, and I admitted to him that I liked him too. He told me that Im the only girl he has cared about hurting since her, and he cares about how I feel ALOT. He said that since he just got out of a year relationship, he doesn't want to rush into another relationship becaus...

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Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 11:51 pm

Okay. So when my ex and I first started dating things were great. It wasn't until like month five that we started having issues. I never knew why. Until I started thinking about it the other day. It was around that time that my parents started having problems with their marriage. Whenever they talked it was always a fight. So they were either fighting or being disgustingly seuxual with eachother... Then I realized that that's what happened to MY relationship. If me and my boyfriend weren't fighting we were hooking up... It was like there was no in between. (My bf and I broke up about five months ago). At the time he told me he was only in the relationship for the last three months for the phyiscal stuff... and I would think "wow what a...

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i like a guy my parents dont like


Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 9:22 pm

13f in 8th grde
and hes an im guessing 11 or 12 in 6th grde but when i first saw him i thought he was 13.

ok so theres this guy (Chris) and i met him at the mall with my friends and i think hes kinda cute. so we were chatting on facebook and he asked if i wanted to video chat with him and i said i wasnt on the right laptop to chat. and he didnt believe me so i sent him a pic from my phone and i guess part of my leg was in the pic and he said "hah u can alwost see your pussy" lol and i laffed and when we got off of facebook i forgot to delete the convo and close out the chat. so my mom went on during work and saw it and now she doesnt want me talking to him and i really like him and i think he likes me but if...

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Is he interested in being more than friends?


Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 6:46 am

I met this guy through a friend because he thought it would benefit me. So him and I we will say JB is his name began studying Dailey. He was the guy who went out on the weekends and I stayed home and watch movies. But when we met we clicked we talked non stop and always laughed. He always said things like I’ve never enjoyed studying this much or laugh this much but it wasn’t a distraction we both got better. I had concert tickets and I knew he wanted to go so I asked him but he was waiting a friend to go who didn’t so I asked him again and was like are you to cool or what. So he was like alright so we we to the concert together and enjoyed our time. We then started doing other outdoor activities. We seen each other everyday to study ...

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getting focus on me


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 7:27 pm

16/f

i like this guy. a lot. hes 2 grades below me but 10 months younger (i dont care about the age, just general info)
well i met him 2 weeks ago and i am falling for him fast. there are several things semi wrong
well he is catholic and i am christian. i heard that catholics only date catholics, is that true? next is that he is mexican and im white. I have no problem with this but he usually prefers hispanic. well we flirt a lot. we walk to the next class with our friends, some days just us. well to more problems. . . my friend "A" flirts with him a lot. shes a flirt and she wont lay off, i have tried numerous times to tell her, but thats her behavior. she says that she doesnt like him yet she asks me...

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how to get through this problem I have


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 5:53 pm

If youve been cheated on in the past how does one heal from it? How do you move on in another relationship without thinking this person is doing it too? I dont want councling to expensive I wanna see if i can do this on my own and be able to trust again since my EX husband F***ED my head up. Thanks

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I like a guy who doesn't like me back?


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 4:21 pm

So theres this guy I really like. He has a girlfriend though, but i cant just give up on him. We're friends but not really good ones. I like him a lot and he doesnt like me back. What should I do? What should I do to get him to like me? And by the way, he already knows I like him.

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I just started talkin to a girl


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 2:18 pm

Kay so I'm still in high school, there's this girl that my friend likes alot. But the girl asked me to star texting her so I did I haven't met her in person yet but I think I already like her, I know weird huh? But I dunno what to tell my buddy cause I gave him a hard to for going out with her when our friend liked the girl as well, what should I do? As well I'd like to know how should I start a conversation with her that won't bore her or be weirded out? Thanks for help!

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friends agian?


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 2:22 am

Okay so my ex and I broke up about four months ago and it was a reeeeeally messy break. He did a lot of shitty things at the time adn it wasn't until just about two months ago that he finally apologized to me about how he handled everything. At first I didn't want to forgive him but then I realized that the only way I can move on is to FORGIVE and forget... so I tried to establish a friendship. He's all the sudden really iffy about it... liek he says he doesnt want to be friends even though he knows I've never done anything to him. He says I annoy him...? I don't know. We had a pretty nice conversation tonight but I still just really really wanna be friends... how can I make the steps to show him that we can do it?? (he's frieds with my lik...

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does he like me


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 2:05 am

I've known this guy for about 2 years at least and we talk whenever we get a chance cept lately hes been ignoring me and it's making me mad thing is idk what his prob is we have a lot im common and everyone tells me he likes me but i dont think he does anymore what the heck could his prob be any advice, btw hes a very sweet honest person.

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