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i like a guy my parents dont like
13f in 8th grde
and hes an im guessing 11 or 12 in 6th grde but when i first saw him i thought he was 13.
ok so theres this guy (Chris) and i met him at the mall with my friends and i think hes kinda cute. so we were chatting on facebook and he asked if i wanted to video chat with him and i said i wasnt on the right laptop to chat. and he didnt believe me so i sent him a pic from my phone and i guess part of my leg was in the pic and he said "hah u can alwost see your pussy" lol and i laffed and when we got off of facebook i forgot to delete the convo and close out the chat. so my mom went on during work and saw it and now she doesnt want me talking to him and i really like him and i think he likes me but if he ever breaks up with his girlfrend and asks me out id have to say no. can someone help me with my parents an dstuff.
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Oh my. Well, I can see why your parents don't like him. You're young and you have ages to find the perfect guy, by this, I don't mean perverted or immature. He's at that time in his life when all he wants is sexual intercourse, which can lead to some very bad results, if not absolutely terrible, such as sexual diseases, teen-pregnancy, and who knows? He might run back and tell his friends that you'd sleep with any guy and you could get yourself into a spot of trouble big time there.
I say you wait a while, until he grows up enough to even know what a 'pussy' is. It might take a while, but it'll be worth it in the end. Maybe you'll end up liking someone else a lot more for perfectly good reasons. :)
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youll be going through that a lot trust me your parents are going to be very strict with you especially if you dont give them a reason to trust you that was the start of it they dont trust you now with seeing this guy or going on the computer which can feel like what the heck i didnt do anything bad the guy said it not me i didnt ask him to. guys no matter what age starting at 11 or 12 are perverts and it wont end any time soon. you should probally forget about that tween boy and go for guys more your age but dont go to high like 15 that will make your parents freak. trust me theres million of other guys that your going to like and if he has a girlfriend then when he goes out with you what if he starts talking to other girls you dont want that tell your mom that your sorry for that rude conversation with that boy it wont happen again you dont find that sort of behavior okay and next time if there is a next time youll say something along the lines of that was inapropriate and wouldnt like to go to much into detail with that sort of conversating.
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your mom doesnt want you to be getting into sexual activity which is probably a good idea. Being sexually active at 13 isn't a good idea because of the consequences. I'm 15 and a guy and have only kissed like 10 times and i know people who are sexually active and alot of them wish they didn't have sex yet.
Your mom is just protecting you from boys, which your parents will do especially your dad since he knows what goes on in our heads which is understandable for him to do. But it can be over the top on his part sometimes.
Your 13 so you got alot of time to find a guy to date so don't worry about it
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