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Question Posted Monday October 4 2010, 10:55 pm

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okay so that question gives a background of my situation...we have hung out a few times after this and he texts me every other week...but we havent hung out in about 2 weeks...2 weekends ago he asked me to go to a party that weekend and before that he told me that his roomates werent going to be home that whole weekend..and i knew what that meant and im not like that unless im in a exclusive relationship you know.It was my sisters birthday the night of the party my whole family was over so i stayed and didnt want to be rude to my family but he seemed to really want me to go cause he texted me like 3 times that day if i was going which never happens and he also texted me that night while he was at the party. He kinda said that he wanted to set up my friend with his friend and like we could do it the next day and we will talk more about it the next day but we never did he asked me what i was during that night i said i dont know he said well text me and i did i said what are you doing he said at a bar you? and i never texted him back i was mad. Then during the week he text me once i missed it i fell asleep and he said he would text me later (but its like the 5th time hes forgotten to do that) last weekend was his homecoming at college and i never heard from him and he called out that whole weekend from work and at homecoming peopel party and i eman people hook up..he never asked me to go either..his profile picture is with a girl too from a party i mean its probably a friend but since shes kinda pretty you get jealous you know lol i want to text him or something but i feel like he should since he hasnt seen or talked to me. I dont know what he wants either..i feel like he wants best of both worlds a girlfriend and to get with other girls cause everytime we hang out he treats me like a girlfriend he pays for everything hold my hang and stuff and what he told me in the beginning of us hanging out from the last question and hes different because he dosent talk to me that much either you know guys usually do when they like you but still asks me to hang out Im just so confused should i text him first? sorry this is so long if you could help that would be great thank you!


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dearcandore answered Tuesday October 5 2010, 5:48 pm:
He wants sex! Put it together - he hounds you with texts and messages the one weekend he didn't have roommates around, then basically stops.... he figured out you weren't an easy mark and moved on to "greener pastures". Sorry girl. You're WAYYYYY to good for this horndog. I know it hurts but you deserve better, and you'll know it when you see it. The very fact that you even have to ask the question means you are NOT very high on his priority list. And trust me, there are good, HOT, kind men out there who won't mind putting you at the top of their lists! Find those guys, leave this one alone.

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