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Is he interested in being more than friends?
I met this guy through a friend because he thought it would benefit me. So him and I we will say JB is his name began studying Dailey. He was the guy who went out on the weekends and I stayed home and watch movies. But when we met we clicked we talked non stop and always laughed. He always said things like I’ve never enjoyed studying this much or laugh this much but it wasn’t a distraction we both got better. I had concert tickets and I knew he wanted to go so I asked him but he was waiting a friend to go who didn’t so I asked him again and was like are you to cool or what. So he was like alright so we we to the concert together and enjoyed our time. We then started doing other outdoor activities. We seen each other everyday to study and even started eating together for lunch Dailey. He went on vacation and I started to realize I had feelings for him. I knew he was the kind of guy who could have any female so I didn’t think I measure up. He wrote me when he was gone little things and I wrote him. I told him about this guys that worked with him trying to ask me on dates. When he came back he called me and some female was yelling in the background and he hung up he called back 10 mins later to apologize for her rudeness and started venting to me about his girl issues and that he had to confess that when he ready my email about other guys talking to me he was angry. So then we had lunch one day and another girl was there and my heart went to my stomach thank goodness there were 2 other people there wit me. I didn’t eat and left. He would tell me about his females and I would listen. One day ou friend was leaving so we went out he came we hung then he left to meet up with his random girl for the week well I text him later with your horrible so he called and said he was coming well I met him outside but when we got back inside the female choice of his was there I was hurt and just left from them to meet with everyone else. I ended up getting drunk throwing his shirt at him and leaving he chased me up the stairs asking me what was wrong and I told him nothing he then told me that I was lying and that I always tell him everything but tonight was different I just walked away. the next day he called and was asking why everyone was looking at him mean and that he felt out of place. I then felt bad and explained my feelings for him. He was like ok but that he didn’t want things awkward but that he wasn’t looking for a relationship. We had dinner that night and I fought to not act weird it was weird the first week. But then he started noticing things about me my hair eyes etc and then started calling me to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner with him. We now are together everyday. We started having movie night at his place instead of going out and when he does go out I go with him. Well, one night we went out and got so drunk we ended up having sex and that was not normal for me as I have only been with one person. It happen again the next night. Now it happens drunk and sober. We wake up and go bout our days. He loves to talk about it and now doesn’t go out with females he doesn’t talk to them like normal he gets mad if I leave in the morning before waking him or eating without him. His friends all know me and think that he is a dog but that he has been hurt by his ex and that he is scared to give his heart again. He friends always tell me that he says he cant keep a girl and doesn’t know how to but that I am with him 24/7 and that basically we are together but he is to stubborn to label it. They all tell me how much he talks about me and how is always saying he cares. He is moving and told me to see if I could get a job out where he is going and well I did and I move there 2 months after him. I am scared and don’t know if I should proceed with the friendship how it is or just let it go before I get hurt. He was talking to me one night he got really deep about his ex from 2 yrs ago that hurt him and how because of her he cant love or trust a female. But the thing is he is always open and honest with me and we have actually both learned to trust each other. I ask him if he still loves her and he just said if it wasn’t for her he wouldn’t be where he is now and that she was the reason as to where he is now. I was sad because if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be where I am. he has helped me overcome and get out of my shelter and not worry about everyone and everything. I love being with him. Sex isn’t what keeps us together that doesn’t happen Dailey. We sleep in the same bed and lately he ask me why do I even go home and he always wants me to stay over weather I sleep on the couch or on the bed. He likes showing me new things and is always there if I am sick he gets me meds cooks for me. He gets drunk and goes out telling everyone I am his girl his right hand his ride or die girl. He has told me he loves me a few times and that I am his girl while being drunk in front of his friends. I tell him the next day and he goes ok so you’re my girl and smiles. One night he even woke me up telling me not to play him he may have been sleep talking I don’t really know because I was sleeping myself. One night we stayed up talking he kissed my forehead a few times and told me he cared about me so much. He does all these things but then he says that he was scared the day I told him about my feelings because no one has ever expressed there feelings and it was to strong for him. Thanks for the time to express.
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it sounds like he really likes you. it just seems that he doesn't want to label it like you said because of his ex and when he thinks "girlfriend" he thinks of how badly he was hurt. i completely understand where he's coming from. at first it sounded like he liked you alot, but then hung out with that other girl because he felt like he was getting too close to you and that things would wind up the way they did with his ex. i say keep doing what you're doing now, show him that you can be trusted and soon enough he'll realize that not everyone is out to hurt him.
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