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Guy Friend


Question Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 6:22 am

I was chatting with one of my close guy friend on MSN and recently, I have noticed that he likes me but I didn't want to make any assumption. I also have a boyfriend and we all went to the same high school so they know each other, so I don't think he's telling me. Please tell me what you think. This is how the conversation went:
*SB is Strongbow cider
*I think Ms.Claus is referring to me
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Me:
then ur santa for adults?

Him:
lol, sure, what would you like?

Me:
i'd like few cans of SBs and some popcorn to go with the movie

Him:
bahah, santa has a student budget so only sb

Me:
haha

Him:
what does santa get in return

Me:
sure whatever fits your santa's budget

Me:
santa gets SBs as well

Him:
mhmmm

Me:
cause thats the only thing i can think of that santa likes

Him:
santa likes lots of things

Me:
like what

Him:
ms claus

Him:
north pole

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Thank you!

Age: 20
Gender: F


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Kindrd answered Monday October 4 2010, 1:29 pm:
It's hard to make any assumption about this with the given facts. If you have a boyfriend then why are you even worried about it? Some people think that a boyfriend is just a compaion and someone to talk to but we are so much more than that. We are a commitment, and in a committment you don't intentionally do things the other half wouldn't appreciate. Would your boyfriend care if he found out that you were talking this guy and would he care what you and he were talking about>??? Now, It seems to me like he either likes you or he is really really immature. If he likes you then that is your own call but if it was me i would say look i'm in a committment right now and i can't flirt like this, i don't like you and i would like to stay friends. But you can do whatever you wish, whereas it's your love life not mine.

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Razhie answered Monday October 4 2010, 12:54 pm:
Based on this alone, there is no reason to think he likes you. He is a young man who likes making vaguely dirty jokes.

UNLESS you have another reason, beyond this conversation, to assume he likes you, or that you are Ms. Claus, then you are making a rather large assumption.

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