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Scared to have sex withh him .
I really like thhis guy he's sooo cute and i just wanna have sex with him soo bad .but im scared bcuz i told ive lost it already but i have nott and hes gonna know bcuz i donnt think ive popped my cherrry yet and since i havent had sex yett i donnt know how im going to react to it and i really dont wanna embarres myself .Whatt do i dddo?
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it is nothing to be embarrest about that you havent done it yet, be honest with him if you lick this guy then tell him and if he truely licks u he will understand if you whant to start a relationship with this guy you BOTH should be honest with each other from the start. once you start lieing in a relation ship it will just snowball and get out of control.
good luck :)
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
I found the following website while answering a very similar question for other young ladies. I believe you should review this website before making any decision about having sex, starting with “Am I ready?”
On the subject of are you ready: all I will say is sexual intercourse is a beautiful thing between two loving responsible people. At your age sex for you as a woman is different than for the boy. You are more emotionally mature than a partner would at the same age by about 2 years. Sex for a woman most always have a loving relationship, meaning women usually do not hop in and out of bed. Where for a boy of the same age sex is more of a conquest, away to satisfy raging hormones.
The odds are against you marring the boy you give your virginity to, so be selective as to who you chose to be your first. Make sure you find someplace you can have your first sexual experience that is safe, relaxing and that you will be undisturbed. You should be on birth control for at least 30 days and always use a condom.
As someone who is old enough to be your grandparent I should be telling you to wait. I am sure your parents have already given you that advice and it is good advice. It is also hypocritical of most of us as most all of us my age and younger engaged in sex long before we were married. What I will say is there are ways of satisfying the sexual urge without having intercourse. There is masturbation, mutual masturbation, which is generally apart of foreplay, BJ’s and HJ’s. These forms of sex should be adequate for now to satisfy both you and your boyfriend without running the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. Remember no birth control is 100% effective. End of lecture.
Before you make your decision please review the following website.
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look, you are still young. How old is this man? Why do you think that having sex is so important? I'm a guy and i dont find it that important. Yes, i enjoy it, but only with the woman that i love. I saved myself for that woman and when it happened it wwas amazing. If you are a virgin, then my advice to you is to keep you pants up and focus on scool. I know that people are always saying that but school is more important that having a child. Childrenn are nice, when you are prepared for them. If you are unprepared then it's going to be a bourden and you will flunk out of school and have officially no life.
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Why would you lie about being a virgin? IF and when he does have sex with you... he's going to find out either way.
Just tell him the truth.
I wouldn't even have sex with him to tell you the truth. What makes him so special to have that metal hanging saying "I took so-and-so's virginity"
If you LOVE him and have been dating him for awhile... that's another story. But you don't need to have a one-night-stand. Leave that for later on in your life.
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